Are you interested in turning your man on and making him just crazy about you even when you’re not there? Well, if you’re romantically interested in him, then the answer is likely to be yes.
And if you’re reading this, then you might be curious as to what you can be doing to make a man lust after you over text messaging.
There is just no denying the importance of texting in modern relationships. It’s one of the most revolutionary forms of communication to have ever hit the human race.
It completely changes the ballgame with regards to communication because it’s so different from face-to-face discussions. When you are talking to a person face-to-face, you have the chance to get real-time reactions.
You get to witness how they’re going to react to what you say. But the advantage that you have with texting is that you get a better opportunity to really think about what you’re going to tell your man. You get a chance to ponder about what you’re going to text him.
Take note that men are very visual creatures. It’s much easier for you to turn them on whenever they are able to see you right in front of them.
However, you shouldn’t let that fact serve as a setback for you to text your man. You just need to make sure that right things to say to get your man aroused.
You can’t afford to be coming up short in your communication game. You have to be firing on all cylinders if you really want your man to be perpetually attracted to you.
So, take note of the following tips if you’re going to be texting a guy. Remember that you have the advantage of not being in front of them while you’re talking to them.
That means you don’t really have to put a lot of effort into how you look. You just have to fuel his imaginations and make him see the best image that he can perceive of you.
And also, you’re given some extra time to think about something clever to respond to him. You want him to be aroused by how you look but you want to pique his interest with your with and your words. And to help guide you on that path, here are a few rules that you might want to be taking note of:
1. Don’t just dive right into things.
You don’t want to be diving right into the idea of having sex with him. You need to play with him for a little bit. Let him lust over you. Have a normal conversation with him first and warm him up to your personality.
And then when you see that the opportunity is ripe for you to be naughty, you should just grab it. For instance, if he asks you about what you’re doing, then that’s when you can think of a provocative reply to really grind his loins.
2. Only ever text him provocatively when you’re in the mood.
If you’re just not in the mood to have hot and steamy conversations with him, then you probably shouldn’t start it. A lot of what makes sex so fun is the energy that goes along with it.
And your lack of enthusiasm is definitely going to affect the energy and tone of your text messages. So, don’t force it. Just wait for when the time is right.
3. Don’t be so eager to send those pictures.
Okay, if you’re only just starting to date a guy, maybe sending those pictures of your butt or your cleavage isn’t going to be a good idea. Take your time with him. Get to know him first.
Once you are sure that he isn’t a certified creep or maniac, then maybe it would be fine for you to send those provocative pictures. But you shouldn’t overdo it either. As they say, you don’t want to be oversaturating your audience.
WHAT SHOULD YOU BE TEXTING HIM?
Here are a few examples:
- I wish you were in bed with me right now.
- Good morning, handsome! I hope you had a nice dream about me.
- I can’t focus on my work today. I keep thinking about the idea of you and me in the bedroom.
- I learned a new pose during my yoga class this morning. I want to try it out in the bedroom.
- Can you guess what clothes I’m wearing right now?
- I think the time you have been spending at the gym has really paid off.
- If you could do anything to me tonight, what would it be?
- I just can’t seem to get you out of my mind.
- I’m only using one hand to text you right now. The other hand is rather busy thinking of you.
- I just realized that I came to work without wearing underwear. Oopsies.