How Men Feel After A One-Night Stand

While many people believe that men love one-night stands and women are often thought to not feel good after a hookup, it’s not always true, and not all men have the same thoughts or feelings after a one-night stand.

Some guys consider it ‘nice’ and believe that’s the best thing that could happen to them – hook up, have a one-night-stand with an unknown woman, and then when they wake up in the morning, they call them an uber before anyone knows and that’s it – ‘never see you again, bye-bye.”

Others might not think like that; in fact, many guys feel crappy after having sex with a total stranger with absolutely zero attachment and feelings. Some even feel guilty about it. Yes, you read that right.

Here are a few possible things men think after they have one-night stands.


These men mostly don’t desire serious relationships and view casual one-night stands with random individuals they meet at bars or on the subway as enjoyable. For them, ending things as soon as the pleasure ends is preferable – no commitment, no strings attached. In this ‘nice’ scenario, both parties typically share the same feelings, using sex as a means to improve their self-esteem and feel better about themselves.

“What was Her name?”

In some cases, men don’t even remember the girl’s name after a casual sexual encounter. There’s nothing personal about it; they’re simply not interested in knowing the woman’s name, especially if they’re under the influence of alcohol. This forgetfulness isn’t exclusive to men; women could also happen to forget names after a fling.

“What Was I Thinking?”

The clan who feel guilty after meaningless sex with a stranger and feel regretful later for being emotionally vulnerable and acting impulsively without considering the consequences.

“I Hope She’s On The Pill”

Some guys begin contemplating the consequences of a casual sexual encounter as soon as it concludes. They worry about various factors, including the possibility of women getting pregnant or contracting an STD. While these concerns can be distressing for some, others opt to ignore them and proceed with their day as if nothing happened.

“I hope She Doesn’t Think This Is Going Anywhere”

Some individuals fear commitment and seek nothing serious or long-term from a casual one-night love affair. In many cases, men who have no intention of pursuing anything further with the women after they are done with them make their intentions clear in advance to avoid inconvenience and accountability later.

“I Wouldn’t Mind Doing That Again”

If the sexual experience was fulfilling and particularly enjoyable, the man may consider repeating it with the same woman. This doesn’t necessarily mean it happens ‘right away’; it could lead to him asking the woman out on a proper date, and it might even develop into something serious. However, the outcome depends on the individual’s personality and the nature of the relationship.

  1. many times, men aren’t the only one z in control, maybe once is enough 4 the woman, every man don’t fit every woman. maybe the woman is looking 4 her fit 2!

  2. Could herald the beginning of 2 souls colliding like 2 shooting stars that create a super nova on impact or could be the forerunner leading to the red carpet of the Walk of Shame and Regret. It all depends on the 2 individuals involved, their ability to be honest with themselves, with each other, a positive sense of respect & responsibility for themselves & others, maturity and compatible beliefs of integrity, values and morals.

  3. You are right but all men’s are not same thinking but they know her name who one night stand with her and mostly remember him

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