1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
You just really need to slow down a little bit. Yes, you want everything to be rushed because you feel like you want to get ahead of time. But time has a way of always putting people in their place. And you have to understand that you can’t rush your relationship into anything. You have to practice maximum patience if you want to keep your love in your life.
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
You have to learn to be a little more flexible and open-minded. You are a very passionate and intense soul especially when it comes to love. But you are never going to be able to overcome your relationship problems if you refuse to listen to reason. You have to be welcoming of fresh perspectives if you want to do away with toxic mindsets and practices.
3. Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
The best way to fix the problems in your relationship is to get out of whatever rut that you’re in. Mix things up by taking a risk or by trying something new with your partner. The point of this is to gain new perspectives by immersing yourselves in new experiences and hobbies. You need to constantly be stimulating yourselves in fresh and new ways.
4. Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
Just go in all the way. That’s the only way you’re going to be able to break the ceiling and move to the next level in your relationship. As a Cancer, you are very withdrawn. You are still holding yourself back. You are so afraid of getting hurt because you know just how fragile and sensitive you are. But that’s no way to go about love. And you just really need to allow yourself to fall.
5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Learn to take it down a notch. As a Leo, you have a very intense and passionate personality. And really, you probably know that that’s what drew your partner to you in the first place. But you also have to realize that you can’t always be living life on the extremes. Learn to just tone things down a little and be content with some mundane stretches every once in a while. You can’t afford to have everything be so dramatic all of the time.
6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
It’s simple, really. As a Virgo, you are just placing too much pressure on yourself and your relationship with your unreasonably high standards. Learn to mellow out a little bit. Be a little more chill and flexible.
7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
You really need to let go of your fear of being branded as basic and ordinary. There is nothing wrong with your relationship being basic. You have to stop trying to force your relationship to constantly be made up of dramatic narratives and grand gestures. There’s a reason why the most solid and long-lasting couples are considered basic. Basic works. Learn to embrace it.
8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)
Just let go of all of the secrecy. Learn to be more open and honest in your relationship. You would be surprised at how significant an impact openness can have on a relationship.
9. Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
You just really need to stop being so selfish if you want your relationship to survive. As a Sagittarius, your freedom is valuable to you. And you should never have to give up your freedom for your relationship. But freedom also comes with responsibilities – responsibilities to your partner and your relationship. And you can’t always just be thinking about yourself anymore.
10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
Stop controlling your partner and treating them like some of pawn in this game of love. That should never be how a relationship works. As a Capricorn, you are so used to getting what you want by working hard and manipulating the circumstances that envelope your life. However, with love, you can’t take a manipulative approach. You have to see your partner as an equal; and you always have to respect them.
11. Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
If you want to be able to fix the problems in your relationship, then you have to stop being so complacent about everything. You have to stop being content with what’s comfortable. As an Aquarius, you should know that growth comes from challenge and unfamiliarity. You have to be willing to put you and your relationship outside of the comfort zone if you really want to grow together as a couple.
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You need to come back down to earth if you really want to be able to solve the problems in your relationship. Yes, your tendency to daydream is part of your charm; it’s part of what makes you who you are. But you are never going to be able to address the issues in your relationship if your head is floating up in the clouds all of the time. Learn to stay grounded in reality.
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