Wouldn’t it be great if you were in a relationship with a guy who valued you?
Of course, when you’re in a romantic relationship with a guy, you always want to make sure that you’re on his mind even when you’re not around him. Even when he’s at the office focusing on his work, he’s still going to be thinking about you every once in a while. This is all because he loves you and he truly values having you in his life. You mean so much to him that you cross his mind often even when you’re not there to remind him of your position in his life.
However, Gemini guys can be tricky in this department. Given that he’s a Gemini, he’s going to tend to have a wandering mind. He’s someone who is constantly seeking stimulation and activity. He hates it whenever his mind is focused on just one thing for a prolonged period. They get bored fairly easily and their interests can jump around from one to the next with no time at all. Given that, your challenge lies in making sure that he’s consistent in his thoughts about you.
You want to do everything you can to make sure that you don’t end up as just a fleeting thought in the mind of your man. He might have a lot of different things going on in his life. But he must always remember that you’re a priority no matter what.
Before Anything Else
Before you continue in this article, you need to understand the idea of not overdoing it in your relationship. Yes, you always want to make sure that you are putting a lot of effort into your relationship with your guy. However, you also have to take into consideration the kind of personality that he has. Also, certain benefits come with leaving just a little more to be desired. If you’re still unconvinced, continue reading on.
A Gemini is someone who values independence. You have to let him be what he wants to be. He has a naturally curious soul and he wants to be free to pursue his curiosity. This is why you need to leave him feeling curious as well. If you overdo it with your efforts in loving him or taking care of him, then that leaves him with very little to be curious about. Also, he isn’t going to want to feel like you’re desperately trying to pull him away from other aspects of his life. He doesn’t respond well to neediness.
This isn’t to say that you shouldn’t make him feel like he’s valuable to you. Of course, you need to convey a sense of gratitude and appreciation for him. However, you need to balance that show of gratitude to make sure that you aren’t conveying neediness. It’s a very fine line and it can be very easy to cross without you even realizing it. So, this might mean you taking more time for yourself and spending more time with your friends or on your hobbies.
Make Him Feel Like He’s Missing Out
If you don’t give too much of your effort, he’s going to feel like he’s missing out and that there is more that he can get out of you. This is going to challenge him and make him feel like he needs to step up. This is exactly the kind of stimulation that a guy like him is going to need to stay interested in a relationship. He has to feel like there is still much more about you that he has yet to learn about or be exposed to. He needs to feel like he has to do his part in earning the right to discover more about you.
A Gemini is a man who doesn’t like to feel like he’s being tied down or whatnot. He always wants to be made to feel like he’s free. When he starts to feel like he’s constricted, he’s going to want out of that situation. So, if you’re putting forth too much effort, he might feel compelled to reciprocate those efforts even when he doesn’t want to. And when that’s the case, he’s going to end up feeling suffocated by your love. This is especially true when you’re really in the thick of the relationship and things are starting to get serious between the two of you.
How to Make a Gemini Man Miss You
Well, there you have it. You already have all of the explanations as to why you need to try to make a Gemini man miss you. However, you might not necessarily know just how you’re going to go about doing so. That’s what this portion of the article is going to try to help you out with. Again, with the help of astrology, it can be a lot easier to simplify the process of figuring out the personalities of the people in your life. It’s just a matter of you taking the time to read up and understand everything that goes into a person’s character and attitude.
You already know that the number one thing that you need to remember is to not come across as needy. He must understand that the two of you can feel like you can still be independent despite being in a relationship with one another. However, that’s not the only thing that you have to do. There are a bunch of other tips and tricks that you can make use of as well to make sure that he always thinks of you even when you’re not together.
Do Nice Things for Him
Of course, you want to pamper him. You want to make him feel like he still has something to gain from being in a relationship with you. Also, this is going to give him a good reminder of just how much value a person like you can add to his life as well.
Change Up Your Look
Remember that a Gemini guy is someone who is constantly seeking stimulation. Sometimes, you can capitalize on visual stimulation by changing up your look. Maybe you can wear a sexy outfit or change your hairstyle up a bit. Even these subtle changes can do wonders for allowing him to have a renewed perspective of you.
Be Spontaneous with Him
Gemini men thrive off spontaneity. They are always going to be allergic to people who are stuck to routines. They had predictability more than anything. This is why it’s a very good idea for you to try to show him that you can be unpredictable every once in a while. This way, he knows that he isn’t going to be bored with you.
Showcase Your Humor and Step Up Your Conversation Skills
You have to make sure that you’re good at having discussions with him. A Gemini man gets bored easily. You already know that. And if he feels bored talking to you, then he isn’t going to want much to do with you. Try to make him laugh with a few jokes here and there. Stimulate his mind by bringing up complex topics.
That’s all of it. That’s practically everything that you need to know about making sure that your Gemini man misses you. Remember that a lot of it has to do with you exuding confidence. You have to make him believe that you’re worth thinking about. Then, it will be a lot easier for you to build on that perception that he has of you. If you have self-esteem issues, then it might be difficult for you to convince him to take you seriously.
A Gemini guy might be very stressful to deal with because of his duplicitous personality. But that’s also a part of the fun. That’s a huge part of what makes his personality so fun and exciting. It’s also probably why you fell for him to begin with. He’s very interesting because he’s a guy who isn’t afraid of pursuing his curiosities and going after what he wants. Granted, he can be very fickle every once in a while. But for the most part, if you remind him of what’s important, he’s going to get it.
Whenever you’re feeling a little confused or lost in your relationship, never hesitate to consult astrology. People and relationships can be very complex. That’s true. Although, with the help of astrology, it can help simplify the process by a significant amount. Just because relationships are hard doesn’t mean that they have to be impossible. That’s why you can always count on astrology and the Zodiacs to help you out. Don’t be afraid to seek the wisdom of the universe in helping you traverse your love life.
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