Are you ruining your chances of finding love?
1. Aries (March 21 April 19)
You always want things a little too quickly. Your fast-paced lifestyle works for you because that’s part of your personality. But when you get into a relationship, you have to be able to respect the pace at which other people are willing to move with you. You can’t be rushing people to fall in love with you when they’re not ready to.
2. Taurus (April 20 May 21)
The fact that you just refuse to step outside of your comfort zone is the reason why you have difficulty finding success in your dating life. You are always only ever willing to explore the places in life that are familiar to you. You are only willing to entertain the kind of people you’re used to. As a result, you don’t put yourself out there and you deprive yourself of many opportunities.
3. Gemini (May 22 June 21)
Learn to stick to one. How will you ever find yourself in a committed relationship if your own self is virtually incapable of committing to a single person? The only way you will ever find success in your dating life is if you just allow yourself to take a chance on a single person. Stick to just one individual and really commit to making things work with that person.
4. Cancer (June 22 July 22)
Stop being so overly sensitive. The real reason why you just have a difficult time finding success in your love life is because you allow yourself to get hurt a little too easily. When you get hurt, you turn yourself off to the idea of being with someone instead of actually giving them a chance to redeem themselves. Learn to be more patient with people and grow thicker skin.
5. Leo (July 23 August 22)
Your constant need to be the star attraction in your life is the reason why you just can’t seem to find yourself in a loving relationship with anyone. You are too caught up thinking about yourself, you end up neglecting the emotional needs of the people that you’re with. Learn to let go of your selfishness, and things will start looking up for you.
6. Virgo (August 23 September 22)
Just learn to let loose a little bit. As a Virgo, you are known to be quite uptight. You always want things to be done a certain way and you don’t really have room to adjust. You fail to recognize that people are going to be inherently flawed and you can’t afford to be so picky all the time. The perfect person doesn’t exist.
7. Libra (September 23 October 22)
Your indecision and inability to act is what is really holding you back from gaining the love that you deserve. As a Libra, you are quite amiable and people are generally drawn to your personality. However, you are a little spineless and you tend to always bend to the will of the people around you. You just need to come to a decision for yourself and stand on your own two feet.
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8. Scorpio (October 23 November 22)
There is no shortage of sex appeal in your personality. As a Scorpio, you are practically oozing with sex appeal. Unfortunately for you, sex appeal alone doesn’t automatically translate to a happy love life. You have a tendency to be very closed off and mysterious. You need to be able to open up and let people in if you really want a loving relationship with someone.
9. Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)
You need to plant your roots at some point. As a Sagittarius, you are very unpredictable and it can be very difficult for people around you to establish a sense of stability with you. As a result, people are privy to the idea of actually committing to being with you.
10. Capricorn (December 22 January 20)
Learn to stop taking things so seriously. As a Capricorn, you are known to be quite the buzzkill with your uptight personality. You need to lighten up a little bit and develop a sense of humor before other people can really be comfortable with constantly being around you.
11. Aquarius (January 21 February 18)
You are a little too weird for some people. But hey, it’s great to be unique. You have a way of setting yourself apart. But you also sacrifice your relatability. In order for you to be successful in dating, you need to be able to make yourself more accessible and relatable as an Aquarius.
12. Pisces (February 19 March 20)
Just learn to stand on your own two feet. Just because you want to get into a relationship doesn’t give you the right to stop standing up for yourself. You need to learn how to be more independent even if you’re in a relationship with another person. Your neediness and over-dependence has a tendency to drive the people you love away.
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