I am a very strong and independent woman and I know how to take care of myself. I have done such a good job so far of fending for myself and making sure that I never have to find myself in the position of having to rely on other people to survive. I have a solid career that I am proud to call my own. I worked hard for everything that I have and own. I work hard for everything that I want. I really do have a life that I am proud to have built.
I surround myself with family and friends who love me and take care of me even when I don’t ask them to. I immerse myself in various challenges and hobbies to make sure that my mind is constantly working and building itself. I don’t really have much else I can ask for in life… except for this one thing.
I am a single person. And for the most part, I’m really comfortable with just being single. I am mostly fine with the fact that I often find myself alone with my thoughts. In fact, I even relish the time that I get to myself. I consider myself to actually thrive in solitude. I don’t mind going out and treating myself to a fancy dinner on my own. I’m not afraid of going out to see a movie by myself. I’m really not afraid of broadcasting my singlehood to the people around me because I don’t care much about what they have to say about it. I don’t primarily like to concern myself with the opinions of other people on how I should be living my life.
I know that people typically say that there is a certain age in life wherein we all should settle down and haul everything in. But I don’t really buy into that kind of philosophy. I genuinely believe that all human beings are different and that we all go through life at our own individual pace. I really am happy where I am right now. I am inspired by the life that I have built and the many opportunities that I am being given. Whenever I find myself needing strength, I look for it from within. And I haven’t failed yet.
I can honestly say that I KNOW that I am a strong and independent woman who has had an amazing life so far. And I know that I’m bound for greater things. However, I must also admit that I need love to walk into my life.
I’m not actively looking for a partner right at this moment but I still definitely want love to find me again. I’m not looking for a partner to keep me safe. I can do that on my own. I know that I can protect myself. I’m not looking for a man who is going to pay for my bills and buy me expensive gifts. I don’t need a man to treat me to lavish dinners at the fanciest restaurants. I am perfectly capable of doing all of those things myself.
I’m not looking for love just because I’m afraid of living alone. I am lucky enough to not have to struggle with those kinds of fears and insecurities. I know that I can embrace solitude just as well as most other people. I know that I have what it takes to make it on my own.
But I’m just looking for a man because I want someone I can call my partner.
It’s just that simple. To be honest with you, I haven’t given up looking for my forever love because I want to feel loved in my life. I genuinely believe that this life is far too short to be spent on people who don’t matter. Time is far too precious to be spent on things and activities that don’t add meaning to my life. And that’s why I think that love is always a worthwhile venture I believe that the search for love is always a great use of a person’s time. Because what in life could be better than the love of someone you love in return?
I want to be able to experience love. I want to be able to come home after a long day at work to someone whose love is just waiting for me. I want to be able to go to sleep at night beside someone who knows me in a way that no one else does. I want to be able to wake up every morning next to the person who is going to bring a smile to my face regardless of what’s happening in my life.
I am a strong and independent woman. But that doesn’t mean that I would be okay with living a life without love.
