If He Does These 10 Things, He Doesn’t Care About You

Don’t waste your time, someone better is waiting.

Ladies, if you think you’re stuck in a relationship with a man who doesn’t love you, then you should go find someone better. You don’t deserve to endure the hardships of a dysfunctional relationship.

Love can be such a tricky situation. A lot of times, it can get the best of us and leave us emotionally drained. It blinds us from the truth and lets us sink further and further into our own miserable lies. A lot of women will tend to get stuck in relationships with men who don’t really love them because of how love blinds them. They think that they can still make the relationship work even when things are practically hopeless.

Ladies, if you think you’re stuck in a relationship with a man who doesn’t love you, then you should go find someone better. You don’t deserve to endure the hardships of a dysfunctional relationship. So how do you exactly know when a man doesn’t love you? If he exhibits a few of these things, then maybe there’s a good chance that you should start looking for love elsewhere.

1. He doesn’t reciprocate your compliments for him.

If you tell him that he has a nice haircut, or that his clothes look good on him on that particular day, and it seems like they fall on deaf ears, then he really doesn’t care about you. He doesn’t give importance to your thoughts and opinions of him, and he also doesn’t care about giving you compliments to make you feel good either.

2. You catch him looking at other girls in your presence.

Your feelings don’t matter to him and he knows that you’re probably going to get hurt if you catch him staring at other women, but he can’t help it. He’s not interested in you, and he’s more interested in strangers around him.

3. He will avoid making eye contact with you at all costs.

Eyes are windows to the soul, and maybe he just doesn’t want to hurt your feelings when you discover the truth about his intentions. If you manage to see the expression of disinterest in his face when he looks at you, then you’ll get disappointed really quickly.

4. He looks like he’s always sad.

Despite being in a relationship with you, he always looks like he’s depressed. It’s as if you always leave him feeling unsatisfied and unhappy. The reason why he could be experiencing chronic sadness is because he really doesn’t love you and he knows it deep down.

5. He never replies to you on social media.

Snapchat stories? Facebook tags? Instagram messages? Yeah. It’s as if you’re engaging in a conversation with a wall. He will never make an effort to acknowledge your presence on social media because he just doesn’t care about you enough to do so. He sees you as just another person who isn’t worthy of his attention or time.

6. He doesn’t make an effort to look good for you.

Your opinions and your thoughts of him couldn’t interest him any less. He doesn’t care about what you think of how he is or how he presents himself because he really just doesn’t care about you in general. He doesn’t believe that he should be making an effort to look good for a girl he really just doesn’t have an interest in.

7. He always chooses his friends over you.

He blows you off in favor of his friends a hundred percent of the time. He doesn’t see you as an important person in his life, and he would rather devote his time to other people who actually mean something to him. His friends will always come first in his mind when it comes to choosing between the both of you.

8. He doesn’t make an effort to initiate conversations with you.

If you’re the one who is constantly trying to initiate conversations, then you’re probably the only one who is interested. Especially when you notice that he’s not interested in prolonging whatever conversations that you’re engaging in, then you should just take that as a sign to find someone new.

9. He tries to distance himself from you.

If he’s constantly making an effort to be away from you, then maybe he really isn’t the guy for you. If he always has an excuse to not spend time with you, then he’s practically avoiding you because he’s just not interested in you. He doesn’t care how it makes you feel because he hopes that someday, you’re just going to get over the fact that he doesn’t love you.

10. He never give you his full attention.

If it feels like he’s constantly distracted when he’s talking to you, it’s probably because he is. There are other things on his mind that he finds more interesting than you, and you will never have the privilege of gaining his full attention. He doesn’t leave much room for you to occupy in his mind and it’s probably best for you to just move on.

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Ladies, has this happened to you? Let me know your story in the comments below

  1. I believe when a man looks at other woman in your presence, it’s so disrespectful, and it’s giving you a hint. My ex seem to be almost perfect, he was very sweet, attentive, caring, lovable, but I discovered he’s the type he’ll look at other women from head to toe without hesitation. Biggest turn off for me. Sure enough right after, I found out he had been cheating on me with another woman, who didn’t care he had a girlfriend, and of course himself he didn’t care about me and my feelings.

  2. I would like to thank you for writing this article. It actually helped me realise certain things. I was actually confused and know I just got a clearer visión.
    I was in a relationship with a guy and things were pretty good at first. I tried to be the best versión of myself and made sure everything was perfect. But things changed and I thought it was my fault. I thought I was ruining everything so I left him. I thought that he should stay happy and I should’nt be a reason for him to not to stay happy.
    I was confused and didn’t know what to do. But now when I read this article it feels like the world turned upside down.
    Literally I just realised I was trying to hold on to someone who didn’t want me. After all we leave the best of ourself to someone who didn’t care about it right!?

  3. This is all true. I’ve been thorugh it. Just now I made my decisions. I hope I can move on with him.. It’s my fault coz I let myself into him even if I know that he not love me the way I do to him. Bless him more he played well at me ?

    1. Same. Always hitting up different women on FB messenger and says its “harmless flirting” and that he loves only me. I called it off because. I felt that the time spent complimenting and chatting with other, mostly younger women with provocative photos could have been spent building our relationship. I also feel its disrespected amd hurtful as he never complimented me.

  4. What if a woman does these thing to a man is it the same or she tells you she wants you when she is around you but when she is going she don’t want you any more

  5. Yes. A few of these have happened and I soon ended the relationship!!!
    I love me enough to know when it was time to walk away.

  6. Married for 15 years to a man who does not love me. Have 3 kids. No job no education. I’ve put myself aside so he can climb the ladder. Today I’m 43 and stuck. It’s a lonely dark place. Ladies please look out for red flags. Mine told me on the first date that I’m his soul mate. Today I’m the worst wife and mother. Shouts at me. Call me horrible names. After a day or so talk to me as if nothing happened and never apologized for his bad behavior.

    1. I have lived the exact same way. I knew it felt wrong but I stayed trying to fix it and hoping something would change and I wanted him to love me so badly I just kept sacrificing myself over and over. I am currently single and still find myself looking for contact from him to say he is sorry and that he made a mistake. It never changes and I hope I can heal and move on completely

  7. I always be the first person who starts conversation on whatsapp. He never texted me first. And it took him till the next day to reply me text. And when it’s happened he blamed the whatsapp saying the feature has a problem so do on discord. We met on online games but now he never login anymore. He barely on in discord and whatsapp. He changed a lot from our first meet in game. He always excited to see me online always compliments me and trying so hard to get to know me. But now he always ignore me. I don’t know who am I to him. I don’t know what is our relationship is. Are we a couple? Are we just a friend? I want to know that too. I know I should just end this unknown relationship but I also don’t know how. He’s my first love. 😢

  8. My ex? Honestly is this. Except he doesn’t even have s*x with me, haven’t even seen him in weeks. He will only spend time with me when he’s drinking and alone and bored… we were or have been together 8 years! No more will I try to prove my worth to a man.

  9. We met talked from time to time .he told my is he wanted to date me.I was not interested but, everyone I saw him I developed feelings.then when I told him I knew what he told my sil..he said he just wanted to be friends the woman he was interested in just wanted someone spend money on her..was confused he said he wanted me. She was younger then humans we are only 3 yrs.apart he’s 65. Now he gives me hugs but, he doesn’t call it text much but before he call and we talked for hours..I am too old and so is he I cannot be younger but, we connected from 1st day we met..I am solo hurt he promised if I was his friend he would never hurt me and be here for me..I have totext or call him,he rarely calls me.. So hurt…

  10. You solved my problem on your first point. Seven years and he was never near a compliment…
    Thanks so much

  11. All the above and more!! I have been fighting breast cancer and he has been cheating on me for years. I can’t do anything, I can’t work because of all the treatments. I am depressed, lonely and ready to give up.

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