You would never want o break up with a person you’re in love with if you don’t have an appropriate reason for doing so. Breakups are so difficult; and if you’re going to go through them, you have to make sure that you’re doing so for the right reasons. Sure, you can have an idea of what you’re supposed to do and say when you’re about to break up with someone; but that doesn’t necessarily make the whole experience any easier.
Of course, there are many plausible circumstances in a relationship that could warrant a justifiable breakup. Perhaps the two of you just can’t seem to agree on a shared life path that the both of you and benefit from. Maybe one of you acted unfaithful to the other. Or maybe both of you just got complacent and the intimacy in your relationship died down little by little. Whatever the case, when it’s time for you to break up, it’s better that you both get it over with quickly and efficiently. You don’t want to be wasting your time trying to beat a dead horse. If you’re not meant to be, then just walk away and move on.
And there are many ways that you can tell that it’s time to break your relationship up. But you also have to be very careful. No relationships are designed to be easy. And just because things are getting difficult in your love doesn’t mean that you should be so willing to just throw everything down the drain. You still have to be willing to work hard to make your relationship work even when it gets hard. However, you also have to be discerning enough to know when it’s time to walk away. And you can’t let anyone else make that decision for you. You know your relationship best because you are the one who is in it. What this article merely aims to do is give you an idea of what it’s like to be in a relationship that’s doomed. But at the end of the day, the decision lies with you and your partner.
Everyone knows that communication is always going to play a very important role in relationships. Communication is something that all people can greatly benefit from when it comes to nurturing connections and bonds. So you can tell a lot about the strength of your relationship based on how you and your partner communicate with one another. Ideally, you should both be able to communicate with one another about absolutely anything. But if you find that you are both unable to talk about these things in particular, then it’s highly likely that you are incompatible and it would be better for the both of you to just call it quits.
1. The direction of your relationship.
Obviously, the both of you must always be willing to talk about where your relationship is going. You must both be open to discussing how much you love one another and where you are willing to let your love lead you. That’s what separates you from being a real couple and being a temporary fling.
2. Your individual goals for the future.
In relation to the previous item on this list, you must both always be willing to discuss your individual goals that you have for yourselves. The reason this is important is because you both need to make sure that you are both able to fit into each other’s lives without having to compromise too much of each other’s dreams.
3. Your stances on marriage.
Do you both want to get married? Does only one of you want to get married? Is it something that either of you are interested in at all? These are things that you really need to get out of the way before you gt really deep in your relationship. You don’t want to be so invested in your relationship only to realize that you have different views on the matter.
4. Your stances on kids and family planning.
Similar to the previous item on this list; you need to both discuss the possibility of eventually having kids in the future.
5. Your sexual needs and habits.
Sex is a very important aspect of a relationship for a great many people. And if sex is important to one or both of you, then you really need to be able to discuss your sexual needs and your tendencies as a couple.
6. Your financial situations.
As sensitive as an issue as your financial situation might be, you and your partner must always be willing to talk about it if you’re serious about really staying together for the long haul. If you’re eventually going to get married and build a family together, you must both be very critical of the way that you handle your finances.