He’s a loyal man.
A relationship is made up of many things but one thing that it can not possibly live without is loyalty. When two people get into a relationship with one another, it is absolutely necessary for both parties to be committed and loyal to each other. It’s through loyal where two people are able to ride the tough waves of life.
It’s with loyalty wherein two individuals are able to endure the emotional struggles that come with dating and love in general. So if you manage to land yourself a man who is loyal, you have to make sure to not take that guy for granted. A truly loyal gentleman is hard to find these days and you can’t afford to let him slip from your grasp. If your guy does these 10 things, then you can bet that he’s loyal.
1. He makes it a point to never flirt with anyone else when he’s dating you.
He is dating you and he is committed to you. He doesn’t want you to think that he isn’t serious about you or that he’s just playing around. He is genuinely into you and he wants you to know that he’s really all in when it comes to you. He isn’t looking to divert his romantic energy on anyone else because you’re the only girl he has his eyes for.
2. He won’t be afraid to express his adoration for you.
He would never hold back on opportunities just to let you know of his affections for you. He would never hesitate to express his love for you. In fact, he will always try his best to make sure that you never have to doubt his feelings for you. He will never want you to second-guess the role that you play in his life. He is constantly trying to make you feel like you matter to him whether publicly or privately.
3. He doesn’t treat your relationship like some sort of competition.
He acknowledges that even though you are in a relationship with one another, that doesn’t necessarily have to mean that you give up your sense of individuality. He still encourages you to live the life that you envision for yourself. He still pushes you towards your biggest goals and dreams. And the best part of it is that he never gets jealous whenever you accomplish something for yourself. He doesn’t try to one-up you whenever you get something done. He will just relish in your joy and he will be even more inspired to go after his dreams as well.
4. He really fights for your love.
He hears all of the bad chatter that surrounds your relationship and he takes a very active role in trying to combat all of that negative energy. He’s not one who just sits on the sidelines and allows for any doubt to seep into your relationship. He never wants you to be insecure about how strong your relationship really is and he will always make it a point to fight for your love. It doesn’t matter whatever trials may come your way as a couple. He is always going to be a staunch defender of your relationship.
5. He always makes it a point to check up on you.
He just isn’t comfortable with himself if he doesn’t know that you’re okay. Not to say that he doesn’t believe that you can’t get things done on your own. But he always wants to make sure that you know that he’s there for you whenever you need him. He wants you to know that you don’t have to face your problems alone because he’s willing to take on your troubles together.
6. He will always be on your side.
When you have your set of friends, he will always make it a point to get them to like him because he knows that they really matter to you. It doesn’t matter if he’s not really fond of them, he will be friendly to them because you like them. The same can be said for the people you hate. If you have your enemies, he will always make it a point to never betray you by being friendly towards them.
7. He is always consistent with you.
He isn’t the type of guy who would be warm and endearing to you today, and then cold and distant to you tomorrow. You can always expect him to be there for you in good times and bad. He’s not a fair-weather kind of guy who is only there for you when it’s convenient for him. He will be there for you consistently. He gives you security and assurance at all times.
8. He considers it very important to win your trust over.
It’s not enough that he trusts you. It’s also important to him that you trust him in return. He would never be able to go about his days comfortable if he knew that you couldn’t trust him. He wants you to feel safe enough to actually allow yourself to be vulnerable to him.
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Ladies, do you agree? Talk to me in the comments below!
This is like a narcissist’s dream guy you’re describing! ME ME ME ME ME the whole time! This is NOT how relationships are supposed to work, ESPECIALLY the ‘hate the people she hates’ part! JFC àre you really expecting to inculcate these SICK values and expectations into women? WTF is wrong with you?
Are you not able to relate to this blurb because everything you believe and do are stark opposite?
Being open and able to talk to each other about anything helps .
On the first read, I was going to disagree on 6th pointer. He wouldn’t blindly hate people. But as the explanation progressed, I realise that my sweetheart actually does no.6. Any person hurting me wouldn’t be on his good books, irrespective of the reason. If I’m on the wrong side, he will correct me privately. But they will definitely not have access to him. All the other points are met, simply because when you love each other, the other partner’s feelings are put before you.
He is all of these. The most wonderful point is no.3 about him. My man, my secure place.