Don’t underestimate the value of texting especially in modern relationships. There’s no denying the impact of social media and communications technology these days. It’s making it so much easier for people to just stay in constant communication with one another despite time and distance. So it’s very normal for a lot of couples to rely on texting to have strong communication games. Not everyone can be together 24/7 (and it wouldn’t be right for that to be the case either).
But distance no longer has to play such a big roadblock in having couples stay connected with one another. How your partner communicates with you says a lot about how he feels about you and the relationship. And so it’s okay for you to scrutinize the way that he texts you; because ultimately, the stuff that comes out of his mouth (or in this case, the stuff he types out with his fingers) comes straight from the heart.
He says what he feels. And you are going to be able to tell just how lucky (or unlucky) you are to have such a guy. If you notice that your guy texts you a lot of these 11 things, then you know that you have a unicorn boyfriend and you have to fight like hell to keep him in your life.
1.“Good morning, pretty lady.”
Whenever he wakes up in the morning, you’re the first thing that’s on his mind. It’s always great to know that you are someone’s first thought right when they wake up. It’s also a great feeling to wake up to a text message that reminds you that you are loved and valued. These little reminders create a beautiful start to the day, setting a positive tone amidst life’s challenges. Even during times of uncertainty, like navigating your first heartbreak, knowing someone cares deeply can provide a sense of comfort and stability. It’s in these moments that the bond grows stronger, as you realize love can be a guiding light, even in the darkest times.
2. “How did your meeting in the office go?”
It’s always a good sign that your man takes a very keen interest in the specifics of your day. He doesn’t ask you things just out of duty. He genuinely wants to find out how your day is going. And he wants all of the details too because he doesn’t take you for granted.
3. “I can’t wait until I see you next.”
This is a guy who is genuinely excited to spend his time with you, and you should be proud of that.
4.“I promise that I’ll pick you up before 6.”
He makes a commitment to you about seeing you – and he doesn’t break that commitment either. It’s so nice being able to have a man whose words you can always trust and rely on. He is always going to live up to his promises when it comes to you.
5. “I want to talk about this with you in the flesh.”
This is a nice text message because it shows that you still have a guy who understands the value of face-to-face conversation. This is a man who knows that there are some things that need to be discussed in person.
6. “My friends just absolutely love you.”
He has a group of friends who love you – and he wants you to know just how proud he is to have you. He loves being able to show you off to his friends. He loves that you are integrating yourself into his social circles so effortlessly. And he wants you to know just how amazing you are.
7. “You somehow make me want to be the best version of myself.”
This is his way of letting you know just how valuable you are to him. He knows that without you, he wouldn’t be the man that he is. And he always wants to make sure that you understand the kind of impact that you have on his life.
8. “Get ready in 30 minutes. We’re seeing that movie that you’ve been wanting to watch.”
This kind of text is an indication of how much he really values you. It shows that he is always thinking about you and the things that make you happy. It might seem simple – but thoughtfulness in a relationship is very hard to find these days.
9. “Don’t cook dinner. I’ve picked something up from your favorite place.”
This is another sign of having a thoughtful man who is really never afraid of making an effort when it comes to you. He will do whatever he can to make you happy and full.
10. “I miss you and I’m thinking about you.”
This is a guy who isn’t afraid of showing his weakness to you; a guy who isn’t afraid of giving you power over him. He shows his vulnerability by letting you know that he thinks about you even though you’re not together.
11.“I love you.”
Nothing beats the good old classics. Your man is so deeply in love with you and he isn’t even shy about letting it known to you. He’s going to want to have the opportunity to tell you that he loves you for the rest of his life. And he’s starting early because that’s just how much he values being your man. He never wants you to doubt his affections for you.
12. “Sweet dreams! I hope that I’ll be in them.”
Of course, it’s not enough that he’s wishing you sweet dreams. He also wants to play an active role in them as well. He doesn’t just want to be in your waking life. It’s important to him that he stay in your subconscious as well.
13. “Message me what you want for dinner tonight. I’ll have it ready by the time you get home.”
They say that the quickest way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Well, shouldn’t it be the same for women, then? Be confident about having a guy who is always going to make sure that you’re never hungry.
14. “I know you’ve been stressed at work, so let’s go shopping together this weekend!”
Shopping isn’t necessarily something that all guys are going to be able to understand. However, you should be so lucky if you have a man who knows how fun and therapeutic this activity is for you. And it’s even better when he tags along as well.
15. “I just keep looking at pictures of you on my phone because I miss you so much.”
He obviously can’t stop thinking about you. He’s so enamored by you that he’s constantly looking at pictures of you in his phone. He really can’t get enough of you.
16. “It’s one of those days where I’m so lost without you.”
Imagine having someone in your life who is so lost without you. It’s not that he’s overly dependent on you. It’s just that he considers you to be a very integral aspect of his life. And he really understands your value.
17. “Just seeing your name pop up on my phone is enough to make me smile.”
You should be so thankful to be with a guy who is always so happy and thankful just to be thinking of you. He’s essentially telling you that the mere reminder of your existence in his life is more than enough to bring a smile to his face.
18. “At your side is always where I want to be.”
He always wants to be at your side. He wants you to know that you’re never going to be alone. This is a man who is always going to make a conscious effort to be there for you no matter what. He wants to make sure that you never feel like you have to do things on your own.
19. “My happy place is wherever you are.”
Happiness is something that we all yearn for in this world. And for him, happiness is equivalent to being with you. This guy loves you so much that he considers your presence to be his complete happiness.
20. “You’ve stolen my heart and I really don’t want it back.”
This might seem like an overused or cliché line, but think about what he’s really trying to say here. He’s telling you that he’s fallen for you involuntarily. But in spite of that, he doesn’t care. He loves being in love with you.
21. “When I look into your eyes, I practically see the rest of my life.”
The future is such a scary concept to think about because of all the uncertainty. However, with him, he knows what his future is going to look like. He just knows that he wants to be looking at your eyes for the rest of his life.
22. “I now know what forever is, because I found it in you.”
Forever is a very abstract concept. It’s so hard to wrap one’s mind around the idea of forever. But with him, it’s evident that forever also means you.
23. “You always lift my spirits whenever I’m down.”
You have a way of just lifting him up no matter what’s going on in his life. When he’s going through some really tough times, you are the one who has the power to make him feel like everything is going to be okay.
24. “When all my dreams come true, it’s you who I want to be at my side.”
As human beings, we all have goals and dreams. And when we achieve those dreams, we always want to share those achievements with people we love. With him, he already knows that it’s you whom he wants to share his achievements with.
25. “In a world where everything is always changing, my love for you will always remain.”
It’s true when they say that the only thing that stays constant in this world is change. But he’s trying to rewrite that narrative. He’s telling you that his love for you is also something that will never change as well.
26. “You’re always my first thought when I wake up and the last thought before I sleep.”
Isn’t it such a nice and comforting feeling to know that you’re someone’s first and last thought to start and end a day respectively?
27. “I found my life’s meaning when I met you.”
As human beings, we all struggle to find some kind of meaning in our lives. But with him, it’s evident that you are the one who gives meaning and purpose to his life.
28. “My life without you in it wouldn’t be a life worth living.”
While you might laugh and say that he’s being a little overdramatic with this, don’t. Think very carefully about what he’s saying. He’s telling you that you are what makes his life struggles worth it.
29. “You make me feel like the luckiest guy alive.”
When he tells you that he’s lucky to have you, he’s essentially just letting you know how grateful he is to have someone like you in his life. This is his way of expressing his gratitude for the role that you’ve played in shaping him as a person.
30. “Your laugh is the cutest thing in the world and I miss it.”
One of the most common reasons why a guy would text you out of the blue is that he misses you. Obviously, he’s being blunt about it here and he’s letting you know that it’s your smile that he misses in particular.
31. “It’s my life’s purpose to make you happy.”
He’s taking it upon himself to make you happy. He’s considering it to be his life’s purpose to bring joy and happiness into your life. This is not a commitment that you should be taking for granted by any stretch.
32. “Forever isn’t enough for me to love you.”
He has so much love inside of him that he’s unsure if he’s ever going to be able to make you feel all of it. Essentially, he’s telling you that forever is not a long enough timespan for him to fully express his love for you.
33. “I just want to run to wherever you are right now and give you a hug.”
Hugs are one of the most endearing forms of affection in mankind. And if he’s telling you that he’s craving for your hug, he’s also telling you that he wants your intimacy and affection.
34. “I’m so thankful that you’ve chosen me over any other guy in the world.”
He’s letting you know of his gratitude once more. This is a man who understands that you have your pick of the litter. But he has no problems with
35. “Time seems to stop and go really fast at the same time whenever I’m with you.”
Time is relative, as was determined by the great Albert Einstein. And this theory in relativity is amplified whenever he’s with you.
36. “Even seeing you for just one second would be enough to make my whole day.”
This is a man who is essentially telling you that even just a second’s glimpse of you would be enough to brighten up his whole day. He’s telling you that you mean that much to him.
37. “I love the way that I am when I’m with you.”
When he says this, he’s telling you that it isn’t just you that he’s fallen in love with. He’s also falling in love with the person that he’s becoming because of you.
38. “What did I ever do to deserve you?”
He’s essentially expressing his disbelief with you. This guy is telling you that he thinks that he’s not worthy of you and that he understands how lucky he has gotten by being with you.
39. “I can’t count the ways I love you.”
Usually, when people fall in love, they have a bunch of reasons for doing so. But with him, there is no counting those reasons. He loves you in so many ways that he can’t even keep track anymore. He loves you in degrees and manners that he can’t keep track of.
40. “It’s my life’s mission to protect you from pain and heartache.”
He knows that this world is going to be full of a lot of pain and potential challenges. And that scares him for you. He wants to try to make sure that you never have to experience pain in your life.
41. “I love us.”
He isn’t just in love with you. He’s also in love with the idea of the two of you. This guy sees you as a team and that brightens up his days and perspective significantly.
42. “Your kiss is my favorite dessert.”
Who cares about ice cream? Who would want some chocolate cake? What good is a slice of apple pie? It’s your kiss that he’s craving for. For him, your kiss is the sweetest thing that he could ever devour.
43. “You inspire me to be a better man.”
It’s a very big deal whenever a man reveals to you that you are serving as his inspiration. You are his muse. Essentially, you are the one who motivates him to be a better version of himself. This is not a responsibility you should be undermining or taking lightly.
44. “I just want to shower you with all my love.”
There’s really nothing else that he would rather do in the world right now. At this moment, he just wants to let you know how in love he is with you.
45. “The sound of your voice is a symphony to my ears.”
This has to be a great thing to hear when you’re a music lover. He’s telling you that your voice is like music to his ears. This is the kind of effect that you have on him as a person.
46. “I’m falling more in love with every single world you say.”
It doesn’t matter what words are coming out of your mouth. He’s loving you more and more with every utterance. He’s telling you that there’s nothing you could say to put him off the idea of being with you.
47. “You are my greatest wonder of the world.”
The pyramids of Giza and the Great Wall of China have got nothing on you. To him, you are the most wonderful thing in the world.
48. “You are the only chance I’ll take.”
He understands that he’s running the risk of getting his heart broken by falling in love. But he doesn’t care. He ultimately sees you as a chance that’s worth taking.
49. “The formula for my happiness is you + me forever.”
He wants to be as happy as can be. This is practically the goal for any human being. But with him, he knows the key to his happiness… and it’s you.
50. “You still make my heart skip a beat.”
You have a weird way of still making him feel like he’s falling in love with you for the first time. It doesn’t matter how long the two of you have been together. He’s still falling in love with you more and more.
