Don’t underestimate the value of texting especially in modern relationships. There’s no denying the impact of social media and communications technology these days. It’s making it so much easier for people to just stay in constant communication with one another despite time and distance. So it’s very normal for a lot of couples to rely on texting to have strong communication games. Not everyone can be together 24/7 (and it wouldn’t be right for that to be the case either).
But distance no longer has to play such a big roadblock in having couples stay connected with one another. How your partner communicates with you says a lot about how he feels about you and the relationship. And so it’s okay for you to scrutinize the way that he texts you; because ultimately, the stuff that comes out of his mouth (or in this case, the stuff he types out with his fingers) comes straight from the heart.
He says what he feels. And you are going to be able to tell just how lucky (or unlucky) you are to have such a guy. If you notice that your guy texts you a lot of these 11 things, then you know that you have a unicorn boyfriend and you have to fight like hell to keep him in your life.
1.“Good morning, pretty lady.”
Whenever he wakes up in the morning, you’re the first thing that’s on his mind. It’s always great to know that you are someone’s first thought right when they wake up. It’s also a great feeling to wake up to a text message that reminds you that you are loved and valued.
2. “How did your meeting in the office go?”
It’s always a good sign that your man takes a very keen interest in the specifics of your day. He doesn’t ask you things just out of duty. He genuinely wants to find out how your day is going. And he wants all of the details too because he doesn’t take you for granted.
3. “I can’t wait until I see you next.”
This is a guy who is genuinely excited to spend his time with you, and you should be proud of that.
4.“I promise that I’ll pick you up before 6.”
He makes a commitment to you about seeing you – and he doesn’t break that commitment either. It’s so nice being able to have a man whose words you can always trust and rely on. He is always going to live up to his promises when it comes to you.
5. “I want to talk about this with you in the flesh.”
This is a nice text message because it shows that you still have a guy who understands the value of face-to-face conversation. This is a man who knows that there are some things that need to be discussed in person.
6. “My friends just absolutely love you.”
He has a group of friends who love you – and he wants you to know just how proud he is to have you. He loves being able to show you off to his friends. He loves that you are integrating yourself into his social circles so effortlessly. And he wants you to know just how amazing you are.
7. “You somehow make me want to be the best version of myself.”
This is his way of letting you know just how valuable you are to him. He knows that without you, he wouldn’t be the man that he is. And he always wants to make sure that you understand the kind of impact that you have on his life.
8. “Get ready in 30 minutes. We’re seeing that movie that you’ve been wanting to watch.”
This kind of text is an indication of how much he really values you. It shows that he is always thinking about you and the things that make you happy. It might seem simple – but thoughtfulness in a relationship is very hard to find these days.
9. “Don’t cook dinner. I’ve picked something up from your favorite place.”
This is another sign of having a thoughtful man who is really never afraid of making an effort when it comes to you. He will do whatever he can to make you happy and full.
10. “I miss you and I’m thinking about you.”
This is a guy who isn’t afraid of showing his weakness to you; a guy who isn’t afraid of giving you power over him. He shows his vulnerability by letting you know that he thinks about you even though you’re not together.
