The technological era has completely transformed our lifestyles. We are living in an age where accessories and luxuries like cell phones, tabs and mobiles have become a dire necessity.
Without any doubt, these hi-tech gadgets like cell phones and mobiles have made communication a lot faster and easier. But the darker side of the picture is that cheating, infidelity and betrayal have become more common due to these communication tools.
Watching your partner always preoccupied with his / her cell phone is not only frustrating but it also creates doubts in our minds about our relationships. While privacy and personal space are vital for the success of any relationship, the same goes for trust and reliability.
To feel secure in a relationship, one has to eradicate everything and anything that can cause any doubts, insecurities or fears in the heart and mind of our significant other. The success of a relationship is directly proportional to the level of transparency in a relationship. The more open, transparent and undoubted your relationship is, the more successful and long-lasting it would be.
Being transparent means being confident of your being. Many partners feel irritated or fidgety when their cell phone is in the hands of their significant other. What is there to hide from the partner of your life? If you are honest in your relationship with your life partner, you will never let any doubts or apprehensions crawl into their hearts. That is why we consider that partners shouldn’t hide their phones from their significant others. This rule of transparency gives your partner a feeling of security and trustworthiness.
Here are some of the most convincing reasons why you shouldn’t hide your phone in a relationship.
1. It builds trust
Giving your life partner access to your phone means you trust them completely, sharing the ins and outs of your virtual life. And as a result, your significant other will trust you completely as they know you won’t hide anything from them.
Building trust is the key to a healthy relationship. Today, partners who don’t hide their cell phones from each other enjoy a deeper bonding of trust and faith. – Continue reading on next page
2. If there is nothing suspicious, there won’t be any suspicions
If you don’t allow your life partner to check or to even touch your phone, then they have all the right to be suspicious about you. There is no point in keeping things secretive if you have nothing fishy to hide.
If your significant other is not conscious about any text or caller ID appearing on their phone’s screen, then they surely don’t have anything to hide from you. But if you observe them being awkwardly alert while receiving a text or a call then there are chances that something fishy is going on. So, to avoid any suspicions in your relationship, don’t hide your phone from your significant other.В – Continue reading on next page
3. More transparency in relationships
Trust and transparency are a must to build healthier stronger relationships. The more open and transparent you are, the more trust you will build in your relationship. And eventually, your life partner will give you more personal space. But if your cell phone password is a barrier between you and your life partner, then there are chances that this four digit code can create thousands of doubts and insecurities in the mind of your partner.В Be transparent and watch your relationship bloom.
4. You have a closer bond
Today, a phone is considered as the most personal thing. Sharing your phone with your life partner or giving them excess to your cell phone means you are ready to share each and every detail of your personal life with them.
Your life partner will have more trust in you if you don’t hide your phone details from them and you both will share a much closer bond with each other.В – Continue reading on next page
5. It reduces the chances of fights
If you always try to hide your phone from your life partner, they will definitely have apprehensions about you. Today, couples get into spontaneous fights just because one of them is always over-protective about his/her cell phone. If you are trying to hide your phone from your life partner, it will create a lot of doubts and insecurities in his/her mind, resulting in arguments, fights and conflicts.
In order to avoid unwanted disputes and quarrels with your significant other, just give them access to your cell phone.
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Do you think you are having a hard time in your relationship because of your mobile phone obsession?
Do you feel that your life partner is over protective about his/her phone?
I am very thankful for this paper to read I have read it over and over again. Because I don’t understand why my husband of 17 year have stop letting me see his phone and than I came a cross this 😒 there need to be some deep talking but I don’t want a broken marriage if there something that work on let’s work on it .