Men are just so unnecessarily complex a lot of the time. A lot of women make the mistake of thinking that men are simple creatures; that it’s going to be easy to decipher their feelings and their needs.
There are so many things going on underneath that rough and rugged exterior – and you can’t be underestimated just what kind of depth a man is capable if you really want to fall in love with one.
It pays to know just what makes a man tick; so that you can tap into that knowledge in an effort to really connect and bond with him as a human being.
It’s all really a matter of making your man feel happy and fulfilled. And this can be done through both grand and simple gestures that you practice in your everyday life as a couple. You really need to be able to touch him in ways that no one else can.
And how can you do that if you don’t exactly speak the same emotional language as men? Well, here are a few things that you can keep in mind when you’re trying to win him over.
1. Feed him.
As cliché as it sounds, it really is the truth. It can go along way with a guy if you know how to feed him. It shouldn’t be as shallow as one might think. If you make an effort to feed him, you are letting him know that you can take care of him; that you’re someone he can really rely on for the rest of his life.
2. Fulfill his needs in the bedroom.
Sexual fulfillment is going to be important in any modern relationship. While sex shouldn’t be the foundation on which a relationship is built, it can definitely improve your chances of intimacy if you have a healthy and active sex life together as a couple. Sex is a great physical manifestation of your love and comfort with one another.
3. Make him miss you every once in a while.
Don’t be too available for him. Live your own life as well. Be independent. Show him that you don’t always have to rely on him for companionship. You don’t want to suffocate him by giving him too much of your attention. You are only going to end up driving him away by doing so.
4. Give him a nice scalp massage.
It’s simple, but effective. It’s very relaxing, but it’s also a very intimate and nonsexual way for you to spend time together.
5. Make an effort to get along with his parents.
This is a very important point to keep in mind especially if he’s a family-oriented guy. You always want to make sure that you treat his parents with affection and respect. You want to make him know that the people who are important to him are also important to you.
6. Help with chores around the house.
Show him that you are mature and responsible enough for him to rely on in a long-term relationship. You have to be able to convince him that you are independent enough to take care of yourself and run errands without his help. If he sees that, he’s going to appreciate you a whole lot more.
7. Be nice to his nieces and nephews.
This is something that can have a real profound effect on him for two reasons. For one, you are again showing him that the important people in his life are also very important to you. And two, you are also showing him that you are great with kids; and that you would make a great mother to whatever future children you might end up having.
8. Maintain a class act whenever you’re out in public together.
While he shouldn’t typically care about what other people think of you, he still secretly likes it whenever you make an effort to be a girl he can be really proud of. Be the kind of woman he would gladly take out on dates for all of the world to see. Be the woman he would love to bring home to his parents.
9. Take an interest in the things he’s passionate about.
You don’t necessarily have to love everything that he’s into; but if you give him another opportunity for you to bond and connect over something that he’s really passionate about, then he’s really going to grow more attached to you because of it.
10. Let him have his freedom.
Just because you fall in love and get into a relationship with one another doesn’t mean that you both have to give up your personal freedoms. That can’t be the case. If you show him that you are still willing to let him be his own person outside of your relationship, then that’s going to make him very happy.
11. Flirt with him often.
And lastly, flirt with him. Make him feel needed. Make him feel wanted. Let him know that you’re attracted to him and that you’re willing to put yourself out there for him.