Fans have been curious about whether Kourtney Kardashian has openly discussed being autosexual since she published an article on her lifestyle website.
Back in 2020, the 44-year-old reality TV star wrote a piece titled ‘Are you low-key autosexual?’ on Poosh. In the article, she talked about the idea that everyone, including herself, might be somewhere on the autosexuality spectrum.
The mum-of-four frequently shares bold images that attract attention while discussing sensitive topics. For those who aren’t up to date with Kardashian’s business projects, Poosh serves as a lifestyle hub where Kourtney offers insights into the essentials of contemporary womanhood.
It’s touted as a “modern handbook for embracing your optimal lifestyle” and hosts a range of content spanning lifestyle tips, entertainment updates, health and wellness advice, and shopping suggestions.
Nevertheless, the article about autosexuality sparked quite a reaction, prompting fans to wonder if it’s about Kourtney herself, especially since it’s solely attributed to ‘Poosh.’
The article kicked off with the question, “Are you autosexual?” followed by the answer: “The short answer is yes, most likely. In fact, we all are, at least a little.”
Casey Tanner, who works as a therapist, writer, and is the founder of QueerSexTherapy, also weighed in on the discussion.
She explained autosexuality as “a trait wherein one is excited by engaging in their own eroticism.” A typical example of this is women in general. While it may not apply to everyone, many of us tend to feel more intimate and excited when we perceive ourselves as attractive. However, it’s not only about women.
While self-pleasure serves as an example, Tanner elaborates that autosexuality may encompass more than just be intimate activities. “It can also involve experiencing a yearning or attraction toward oneself,” she clarifies. “It can also be the ability to turn oneself on through looking at, visualizing, touching, or smelling oneself.”
She also noted that, similar to most labels, autosexuality exists on a spectrum.
“Like most human characteristics, autosexuality is a spectrum – and the majority of us are on it! Some may identify as exclusively autosexual, in which case they might consider autosexuality their intimate orientation. Most people, however, incorporate autosexuality into a larger intimate repertoire that also includes being excited by partnered intimacy,” said Tanner.
The article proceeds to outline some straightforward, everyday actions that might evoke self-attraction, such as wearing alluring lingerie “even if your partner barely notices,” styling your hair and makeup, or showering “affectionately.” The article also touches on the importance of maintaining a positive environment, especially when navigating situations like a man’s blatant disrespect at gym. Encouraging respectful behavior not only fosters a sense of community but also enhances personal growth and confidence among gym-goers. Ultimately, creating a supportive atmosphere can redefine the experience and make it more enjoyable for everyone involved.
“If feeling attractive independent of someone else has ever turned you on, that’s autosexuality, and it’s totally normal,” Kourtney added.
Tanner also delved into the concept that by being capable of exciting oneself, we transition into a completely distinct “tender headspace.”
“When we look at or fantasize about ourselves, we are in touch with our bodies and senses,” she continued. “Getting excited by oneself does not mean you think you’re better than other people, that you’re selfish, or that you’re not attracted to your partner(s). Rather, it’s one additional tool in your box for sparking desire and passion.”
The article ended by suggesting readers embrace themselves and simply “enjoy themselves” without worrying about being self-centered or narcissistic. It’s described as a way to show love to oneself physically, and you know what? I’m kind of into it.
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Source: Poosh
