How Do I Know if My Boyfriend is Losing Interest?

my boyfriend is losing interest

Emotions aren’t magic; they’re real. And when someone loses interest in us, it hurts – a lot. But who’s to blame? Did we make them lose interest? Have they found someone else? The human mind plays a lot of cruel tricks.

People lose interest; it’s one of the sad realities of life. Emotions come and go, some feelings get muffled because of arguments and other issues, but it’s all about emotions in the end.

Find yourself asking “what if my boyfriend is losing interest?”, there are going to be a lot of very open signs you can keep an eye out for.

Four visible signs your boyfriend is losing interest:

1. He doesn’t pay attention to you anymore.

If he has started spending time away from you, it’s a red flag. It means he is slowly losing interest. You need to have an honest conversation with him and ask him what’s wrong.

2. He cancels plans.

If he’s losing interest, he won’t make any special plans for you. This needs to be discussed and fixed; it’s a toxic emotion that will lead to a lot of pain.

3. He doesn’t initiate conversations.

Men love initiating conversations; it’s one of our traits. And when a man isn’t interested, he’d keep the conversation to a minimum. If he’s not initiating conversation, it’s a visible sign that he’s not as interested as you’d like.

4. He is very dismissive.

When a person is losing interest in you, they’re generally dismissive towards you. If he’s doing this, ask him the reason. Ask him what made him lose interest. There has to be a conversation about this. Don’t let your emotions be taken for granted.

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  1. This is happening to me right now. I have been with my bf going on 13 years this September. We have a 3 year old son, but I have 3 other kids. He has become real distant from me. Doesnt not even come around. Always telling me his working. He has the tendency of blaming me for everything that goes wrong in our relatiosnhip and says Im always cheating on him. WHich I dont. I have very strong suspicions that he is the one cheating me althouh I dont have any proof. I told him we should go our seperate ways as I’m tired of always having to be blamed for everything. Alot has happened over the past 12 years and I want to work through things, but I can not do it alone. I really dont know what to do anymore. I love him, but will not force him to love me back or even stay with me. We both deserve to be happy and if he feels that I am not the one for him he is more then welcome to end everything. I have told him this manier times. And when I do he will always tell me its because I have someone else. My bf makes me feel so small and when I also talk to him about it he says that everything is always about me. He has no time for me and my kids. We dont even have anything to show for the 12 years that we have been together. We have not even started to build a life together. I have a best friend which he also doesnt like. She is my best friend and has always been there for me and my kids through a lot of difficult situations in my life including my relationship with him. He loves his son, but that is where it ends. He only has love for him so me and my other kids dont feature anywhere. Dont get me wrong I’m not saying that everything is his fault, but I want to fix things. But how do I do that when he treats me like SHIT and making me feel so bad about myself and not even having my time. I can go on and on. But should sumarise my situation.

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