Getting your man turned on doesn’t really have to be all that difficult or complicated. You just have to make sure that you know what you’re doing and that you mix things up every now and then. You can’t be predictable because the more that you repeat something, the less significant the effect becomes. So make sure that you always stay spontaneous. Know how to be flexible. Be adaptable. But if you’re feeling lost and you don’t know where to start, then this article is going to be perfect for you. Here are a few ideas on what you can do to turn your man on.
1. Make the first move on him.
Show him that you’re confident and that you can be the one who initiates the relationship. Real men can really appreciate a woman who knows how to go after what she wants. And if you show him that you’re interested first, it’s always a big turn-on.
2. Always establish eye contact.
If you do this, you are showing him that you really trust him; that you’re willing to be sincere with him. Let him know that you want to see how genuine you are and that you aren’t looking to be misleading him in any way.
3. Make an effort to text him.
Don’t just be the first one to text him on a random day. It’s not just about that. It’s also about being able to sustain a conversation with him. Carry the discussion. Make an effort to really connect with him.
4. Wear shades or hints of red.
Studies have shown that red tends to be the color of love and passion; and if you wear red, you are automatically sending signals to his brain that you can be a target of his personal passions. It’s proven by science.
5. Let him know that you’ve decided to ditch the underwear.
Going commando is very indicative of what’s in store for him for later on in the night. And when you’ve been dating for a while and you have a sexually active relationship, this can be a really good technique to get him in the mood.
6. Let your hair down.
This can be a particularly effective technique to turn him on if you’re one who tends to wear your hair up most of the time. The moment that you let your hair down, you are showing him a more laid-back and adventurous side of yourself.
7. Give him random massages.
There’s something always so sensual about massages. Maybe it has something to do with the obvious fact that you’re rubbing your skin against one another’s. Either way, it’s always very sensual and relaxing. Don’t be afraid to use this to get him into the mood.
8. Hug him like you mean it.
Really hug him. And don’t just wrap your arms around him and give him a pat on the back. Really hug him and let him feel the warmth of your body against his own.
9. Be very touchy with him.
Show him that you’re willing to be physically intimate with him. Prove to him that you’re comfortable with him; that you have a rapport and security with him that you don’t have with anyone else.
10. Prolong that kiss as much as you can.
Don’t just give him a random peck on the kiss. Don’t treat your kiss like some kind of ritual that you just have to go through. Really put your feelings into your kiss. Let him feel the love that you have for him through the intensity of your kiss.
11. Talk about your sexual fantasies together.
There’s always something so enticing about being able to discuss your wildest sexual fantasies with another person. It’s not typically something you would be opening up to other people about. But when you tell your man about these things, it can be a really big turn on.
12. Wear sexy lingerie for him.
Lingerie is always going to be sexy. If he gets turned on when he sees you in traditional underwear, think of how turned on he’s going to be once he catches you in underwear that’s designed to be sexy.
13. Talk dirty with him in the bedroom.
If he’s going to be into it, you can also try talking dirty with him in the bedroom. It’s going to show him a rougher, wilder, and more adventurous side of you that he may have never seen before; and that’s going to really make things interesting.
14. Have sex in places other than the bedroom.
Mix things up. The world is your playground. You can make things really interesting by taking your sexual adventures outside the four corners of a bedroom. If you’re feeling particularly frisky, you can engage in sexual acts in the most unexpected places.
15. Take a shower together.
Who says showering has to be boring? Shower with your partner for a lot of sexual fun – and you can save some water too.