1. She is very independent and she doesn’t NEED to be in a relationship with you.
She doesn’t NEED to be with anyone, really. She can survive all on her own. Yes, she might need some help from a few friends every now and then. But that doesn’t mean that she needs to be in a relationship just to get by. She is perfectly capable of living that single life and thriving in it.
So, you have to know that if she’s getting into a relationship with you, it’s never out of necessity. She’s getting into a relationship with you because she genuinely wants to do so. She is choosing to let you into her life.
2. She won’t hold back from calling you out on your bullsh*t.
She isn’t going to censor herself for your convenience. She isn’t going to shut herself up just so she doesn’t offend you. Whenever she sees something that is worth calling you out on, she is going to do it. She isn’t going to shy away from letting you know what she really thinks or how she really feels.
She isn’t looking to protect you from your own feelings. But you also have to know that she is doing this out of love. She wants to push you to be a better man. She sees the potential in you and she would hate it for you to just settle.
3. She is incredibly high-maintenance and you need to be up for the challenge.
She isn’t high-maintenance in the sense that you’re going to have to buy her a lot of luxury items just to please her. She isn’t high-maintenance in the sense that you’re going to need to provide her with fancy cars and a big mansion. She’s not like that.
She’s high-maintenance in the sense that she’s going to require a lot of effort on your part if she’s going to get into a relationship with you. She is going to demand a lot of patience and understanding from you. She is going to want you to put in just as much work into the relationship as she’s willing to put in herself.
4. She doesn’t like to admit when she’s wrong and you know that she’s being really genuine whenever she admits defeat.
She is a very proud girl. However, she is also someone who is humble enough to admit whenever she’s wrong. She hates it so much whenever she screws up, but she will never be afraid of owning up to her weaknesses and shortcomings.
5. There are no limits to her passion.
She is an incredibly passionate woman. She is the kind of woman who excels at anything she really sets her mind to – and it’s all because of her passion. Whenever she develops a sincere interest in something, she lets that passion flow through her.
She lets that passion fuel her with energy and motivation. She lets that passion carry her all the way to success. And so if she’s getting into a relationship with you, you can expect her to be incredibly passionate about you. She is going to be very passionate about making things work with you.
6. She is going to stay as loyal and as committed to you as possible.
When you do everything to earn her trust, then she’s definitely going to reward you for it with her loyalty. If she sees that you’re willing to put in so much effort for her, she’s going to do the same for you. She will really be committed to meeting your personal needs and expectations.
7. She isn’t going to entertain you if you try to be coy or if you play hard-to-get.
She isn’t going to play that game with you or with anyone. She isn’t coy about her own feelings. She is always going to be upfront about it. She is always going to wear her heart on her sleeve. She will not hesitate to let her feelings be known.
And she expects the same kind of authenticity from you. She will not want to play any foolish and immature emotional games with you. She is always going to want to keep it real.
8. It’s going to take her a little time before she really opens up to you, but once she does, you know that she’s all-in.
She is going to keep herself guarded for the initial part. You have to understand that she is a very independent woman and all her life, she has always been looking out for herself. And she didn’t get to where she is today by just letting other people manipulate her however they want.
And so, you’re really going to have to be patient with her. You will have to wait for her to be sure about you. And once she is sure, then you know that you have someone who is going to commit to every single ounce of your relationship.
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