There’s a girl here. She’s a perfectly normal girl who has dreams and aspirations for herself. She’s smart, and she keeps things real. She has her little fantasies, but she doesn’t live up in the clouds. She keeps her feet on the ground, but she always has her eyes on higher things. She’s interested in you.
She wants to get to know you better. She thinks that there’s potential there, and it would be a shame if it were to be left untapped. She is willing to put the work in to make sure that you like her, and that you establish harmony in whatever relationship you will have together.
She is willing to expose more of herself to you in an effort to make you feel safe, secure, and comfortable in her. She wants to gain your trust, and she’s willing to do what is necessary to make it happen. She is going to be mindful of her words and sensitive to your feelings. She will do everything in her power to make you happy; to make you feel like every moment with her is pure bliss.
She will make time for you no matter how busy she is because she knows that that’s part of the package. She isn’t going to become complacent. She is going to be a team player through and through; you can always count on her to be there for you. You can always be assured that she’s willing to put in the effort to make things work with you.
However, you should know that there is a stark difference between putting in the work and just throwing herself at your feet. She would never be the type of person who resorts to groveling and begging to gain your affections. She will not compromise her sense of self-worth and her dignity for your approval.
She would never deliberately put herself down for the benefit of a man who wouldn’t do the same for her. She might be interested in a love affair with you, but that doesn’t mean she’s going to stop loving herself in the process. She has time for men when they show that they are willing to set aside time for her.
She is going to exert the effort for men who are willing to reciprocate that effort with gratitude and love. However, she has neither the time nor the patience to swoon over a man who just isn’t worth it, whose affections are far from desirable.
She’s the type of girl who doesn’t have to patiently point out all of her good assets and qualities to you as if you were mentally challenged. She’s clearly a good catch, with how she presents herself, how she goes about life, and how she tackles her daily goals. She shouldn’t have to put up a personal billboard advertising her personality in order to catch your attention as if you were a potential customer.
You should also be one who makes an effort to seek her out; to learn more about her; to discover the depths of her being. You should be willing to embrace the challenge of letting another soul take a peek into your life. If you aren’t, then you’re going to let a great girl slip from your grasp.
Other men would absolutely do whatever it takes to be in the position that you’re in. You have somehow managed to pique her interest, and you probably don’t deserve it. You cannot afford to throw away your shot. Don’t be so demanding as to always want her to dress up in the fanciest and most lavish clothes. Don’t be so conceited as to always demand her to throw smiles and kisses your way on a constant basis.
If you feel like she needs to satisfy your ego in too many unreasonable ways, then you definitely don’t deserve her. You’re not the man who is going to satisfy her, and she will never settle for someone like you. If you’re not willing to treat her the way she ought to be treated the way she treats you, then you’re just never going to work out. She is going to walk away from you without a moment’s notice, and you’re going to be filled with regrets for the rest of your days.
It was never her fault, and you should never blame her. Nobody ever likes being put in a position of imbalance. She didn’t want to have to be the one who always gave to the relationship but never received it. She didn’t want to let a relationship consume her entirely to the point where she loses a sense of who she is and what she really wants out of life. She doesn’t see love as a one-way street; she only sees it as a road built for two to travel together at the same pace. She doesn’t want to have to end up as the person who detests the very concept of love out of bitterness and disappointment.
She is very much interested in you, but that doesn’t mean she’s willing to put in all the work on her own; you have to be her partner in the process. You have to be there for her to hold her hand whenever she feels like she’s about to slip. She needs you to be the same person that she is for you.
Nicola why have you sent me this….you tell me you don’t want a life with me and Jessica after 10yrs. It doesn’t make any sense🤷♂️.
You know full well that I loved you completely and was all the woman I ever needed. You gave me my lust for life, but you also gave me my darkest days with your games of rejection.