You just have to accept that today may not be that day; but it’s coming.
It hasn’t exactly always been smooth-sailing for you. Things have been rough and you have had your fair share of stumbles. You have had your fair share of heartaches, heartbreaks, and disappointments. You wear your emotional scars on your face like medals. You tried in love but you fell, and you fell hard. You tried your best but you still ended up drowning. There was nothing that could stop you from putting yourself out there. You bore your soul out to him but it wasn’t enough. You thought that you had an unbreakable spirit at first but you’re not so sure anymore. Because here you are after all has been said and done, and you feel as broken as ever. But still, you’re choosing to hold your head high and keep your chin up. You still have your eyes on the future.
You pushed all of your chips in, but you still had a losing hand. You couldn’t bluff your way out of this one. You genuinely thought that you could win but you didn’t, and that’s okay. It happens. You fell in love but it didn’t work out and that shouldn’t be something to beat yourself up over. You were always told that love was going to feel easy and natural. And yet, everything always felt so difficult and complicated. You were always told that love wasn’t going to hurt you and that it was going to protect you from everything. And yet here you are, feeling very hurt, vulnerable, and defenseless.
Sure, you’re at an emotional low at the moment, and it may be difficult to look at the bright side of things but you owe it to yourself to try. You have to remember that no matter how down you may be feeling at the moment, love was, is, and is always going to be worth that risk. Love isn’t always going to mean that you will end up getting hurt. Love isn’t always going to end up making you feel like you’re at your lowest.
Someday, you’re going to find exactly what you’re looking for when it comes to love.
You just have to accept that today may not be that day; but it’s coming.
You’re going to meet that one guy who is going to dry your tears whenever you can’t seem to hold back the waterworks. He is going to be the type of guy who is going to help you make your mind up on delicate matters that concern the heart. You’re going to know it from the moment that you meet him and he’s going to erase all the doubt in your mind. He’s the type of man who would stand out in the rain just to catch a glimpse of your face. He is the man who is going to take your broken heart and help put the pieces back together. He’s going to open your eyes to a kind of life that you’ve never known. He is the guy who is going to make you understand why it was necessary for you to go through all those previous heartbreaks they were steps that you needed to take to get to him. He’s going to make you feel like all of your patience, resilience, and determination is all going to be worth it. He is the man who is going to make you forget about all the pains of the past; the man who is never going to bring you any pain in the future.
Someday, you’re going to meet the man who is going to hold you for as long as you ask him to. He is the guy who is going to make your life feel like it’s complete and full of wonder. He is the man who is going to push you towards your biggest dreams. He is the man who is going to give you the freedom to be yourself without fear of being judged or demeaned. He is going to try his best to protect you from the harsh realities of the world, but he is also going to allow you the space that you need to grow and mature as an individual.
Someday, you’re going to find what you’re looking for in a man. He’s going to look you in the eye and make you feel like you are the center of his universe. He will have the power to make you feel like you’re the only girl in a crowded room. He will have the touch of a delicate feather and the emotional strength of a raging lion. He is going to be the perfect balance of heavy passion and light sensitivity.
You’re just going to have to be as patient as you can. He is going to come at the exact right moment in your life. He’s not going to come too early, because then you might not be mature enough to appreciate him. He’s not going to come too late after you’ve lost all hope. He’s going to come someday, and you will be the happiest that you’ve ever been.
