A dear friend of mine asked me, “How can I spice up my relationship with my boyfriend?” and this is what I told her.
A couple should continuously work on keeping each other happy. It requires a lot of effort from both sides without any competition. When two people are in a relationship, they work on each other and want the best for their partners. That includes keeping things interesting in the bedroom.
Passion and intimacy aren’t things you should ever ignore; every relationship needs them to stay healthy and keep growing. A couple should be very transparent and open about their expectations. If you want to spice up your relationship with your boyfriend, I have a few tips for you.
Three ways to spice up your relationship with your boyfriend:
1. Have an open conversation about it.
The easiest and most straightforward way to spice things up is to talk about it. It’s about time we stopped making each other be mind readers until an argument erupts out of nowhere. Be open with your boyfriend and ask him what he likes, he will appreciate you being so caring towards his needs. It’s an act of kindness and love.
2. Be creative.
Be creative in the bedroom; don’t be scared of trying new things. Relationships are all about growth, both individual and mutual. Unless both partners are open about their needs and expectations, problems are bound to show up later on in the relationship. Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone.
3. Be romantic.
No matter what people say, romance is never going to die. It’s always going to play on his strings if you’re romantic towards him. The way your words work on him is magical. He will love the fact that you’re so caring and passionate about him; it shows how important he is for you.
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