Stay Single Until You Find A Man Who Does These 40 Things

You should never have to force yourself to be in a relationship if it’s not meant for you. You must always try to be honest with yourself. Your desperation might drive you to the point that you end up settling for a guy who isn’t good for you. The harsh truth that you might have a hard time accepting now is that it would be a lot better for you to stay single than force things in a relationship with someone who isn’t right for you.

That’s why you should stay single until you find a man who does these 40 things:

1. He genuinely tries to ask you out and plan nice dates for the two of you.

A man who is truly interested in you will make an effort to get to know you and spend time with you. He will plan thoughtful dates that he knows you will enjoy. He will also be respectful of your time and boundaries.

2. He holds the door open for you whenever he has a chance to do so.

This is a small gesture that shows that he is a gentleman and that he respects you. It also shows that he is thoughtful and considerate of your needs.

3. He waits for you to be seated comfortably before he even takes a seat for himself.

This is another small gesture that shows that he is a gentleman and that he cares about your comfort. It also shows that he is patient and considerate of your needs.

4. He gives you his jacket whenever he sees that you’re shivering from the cold.

This is a sweet gesture that shows that he cares about your well-being. It also shows that he is thoughtful and considerate of your needs.

5. He allows you to place the order first whenever you’re eating out.

This is a small gesture that shows that he is considerate of your needs and that he wants you to be happy. It also shows that he is respectful of your preferences.

6. He offers to pay for dates.

This is not always necessary, but it is a nice gesture that shows that he is willing to take care of you. It also shows that he is financially stable and that he is not afraid to spend money on you.

7. He makes a genuine effort to meet all of the closest people in your life.

This shows that he is serious about you and that he wants to be a part of your life. It also shows that he is interested in getting to know the people who are important to you.

8. He offers to drive you around when he knows that you have a lot of errands that you need to accomplish.

This is a helpful gesture that shows that he cares about you and that he wants to make your life easier. It also shows that he is willing to put in the effort to make sure that you are comfortable.

9. He doesn’t’ hesitate to introduce you to his closest friends and family.

This shows that he is proud of you and that he wants to share you with the people who are important to him. It also shows that he is serious about you and that he sees a future with you.

10. He never waits too long to reply to a text message or respond to a missed call.

This shows that he is interested in you and that he cares about what you have to say. It also shows that he is respectful of your time and that he is not playing games with you.

11. If he’s too busy to respond to you, he lets you know accordingly, and he never leaves you hanging.

This shows that he is honest and that he respects you. It also shows that he is not afraid to communicate with you and that he is willing to make an effort to keep in touch.

12. He makes sure that you know that he has always got your back regardless of what you want to do in life.

This shows that he is a supportive partner and that he is always there for you. It also shows that he believes in you and that he wants to help you achieve your goals.

13. He stays patient with you and he respects the fact that you have full ownership of your time and body.

This shows that he is a mature and understanding partner. It also shows that he respects your boundaries and that he is not going to pressure you into doing anything that you are not comfortable with.

14. He allows you to go out and have fun on your own time without him.

This shows that he is confident in himself and in your relationship. It also shows that he respects your independence and that he wants you to be happy.

15. He always takes care of you whenever you go a little too hard and have too much to drink.

This shows that he is a responsible and caring partner. It also shows that he is not afraid to put your needs before his own.

16. He doesn’t take advantage of you whenever you’re drunk.

This shows that he has good character and that he respects you. It also shows that he is not going to use you or take advantage of you when you are vulnerable.

17. He genuinely listens to you whenever you want to tell him something or get something off your chest.

This shows that he is interested in you and that he cares about what you have to say. It also shows that he is a good listener and that he is not going to interrupt you or dismiss your feelings.

18. He shows a willingness to talk to you about the future of your relationship.

This shows that he is serious about you and that he sees a future with you. It also shows that he is willing to communicate with you and that he is not afraid to talk about the tough stuff.

19. He takes the time to really make sure that your bedroom experience is as fun and as fulfilling as he is.

This shows that he cares about your pleasure and that he wants you to be satisfied. It also shows that he is a giving and generous lover.

20. He shows a willingness to get physically intimate with you without having any strings attached.

This shows that he respects you and that he does not want to pressure you into anything that you are not comfortable with. It also shows that he is not afraid to be vulnerable with you.

21. He gives you butterflies in your stomach whenever the two of you are together.

This is a sign that he is attracted to you and that he makes you feel special. It also shows that he is able to make you feel happy and giddy.

22. He holds your hand whenever the two of you are walking alongside one another.

This is a simple gesture that shows that he cares about you and that he wants to be close to you. It also shows that he is not afraid to show his affection in public.

23. He always motivates and encourages you to become better without making you feel like you aren’t enough for him.

This shows that he believes in you and that he wants you to achieve your goals. It also shows that he is supportive and that he wants you to be happy.

24. He makes sure that you are still living a happy and fulfilling life outside of your relationship.

This shows that he is not trying to control you or isolate you from your friends and family. It also shows that he wants you to be happy and that he is not going to be jealous of your other relationships.

25. He takes the time to really teach you about things that you might be curious about.

This shows that he is interested in you and that he wants to learn more about you. It also shows that he is a good communicator and that he is willing to share his knowledge with you.

26. He constantly makes an effort to make you laugh or bring a smile to your face.

This shows that he cares about your happiness and that he wants you to be happy. It also shows that he is fun to be around and that he can make you laugh.

27. He does whatever he can to ease the burdens and the pressures in your life.

This shows that he is caring and that he wants to make your life easier. It also shows that he is a supportive partner and that he is there for you when you need him.

28. He always shows up at the time that you agree to see one another.

This shows that he is reliable and that he respects your time. It also shows that he is not afraid to commit to you.

29. And he apologizes on the rare times that he might be running late.

This shows that he is humble and that he is not afraid to admit when he is wrong. It also shows that he respects you and that he wants to make sure that you are not inconvenienced.

30. He always makes it a point to stay open and honest with you about everything so that you would never have to doubt what he has to say.

This shows that he is trustworthy and that he has good character. It also shows that he is committed to your relationship and that he wants to build a foundation of trust.

31. He always shows up for you whenever you need him even though it might be inconvenient for him.

This shows that he is a true friend and that he is always there for you when you need him. It also shows that he is committed to your relationship and that he wants to be there for you through thick and thin.

32. He tells you that he’s proud of you and that he’s always so happy to be with you.

This shows that he is supportive and that he wants you to be happy. It also shows that he is grateful to have you in his life. He is always there to celebrate your successes and to offer you words of encouragement when you are feeling down. He makes you feel loved, valued, and appreciated.

33. He is always willing to put your own happiness above his own.

This shows that he is selfless and that he cares about your happiness more than his own. It also shows that he is a good partner and that he is willing to make sacrifices for you.

34. He allows you to take a deeper and more immense look into his life.

This shows that he trusts you and that he wants you to be a part of his life. It also shows that he is open and honest with you and that he is not afraid to let you see his flaws.

35. He includes you in all major decisions or plans that he might have to make in life.

This shows that he values your opinion and that he wants you to be involved in his life. It also shows that he is committed to your relationship and that he wants to make decisions together.

36. He inspires you to always be on your absolute best behavior.

This shows that he believes in you and that he wants you to be the best version of yourself. It also shows that he is a good influence and that he wants you to be happy and successful.

37. He shows humility and he apologizes whenever he knows that he has screwed up.

This shows that he is mature and that he is not afraid to admit when he is wrong. It also shows that he respects you and that he wants to make sure that you are not hurt.

38. He never holds your mistakes or your sins against you.

This shows that he is forgiving and that he wants to move on from the past. It also shows that he is a good partner and that he is willing to work with you to overcome your challenges.

39. He makes sure that you always feel safe and comfortable whenever you’re together.

This shows that he cares about your well-being and that he wants you to be happy. It also shows that he is a protective partner and that he wants to make sure that you are not harmed.

40. He loves you with all of his heart.

This is the most important thing of all. It shows that he is committed to you and that he wants to be with you forever. It also shows that he is capable of deep love and that he is willing to put in the effort to make your relationship work.

6 comments
    1. No kidding! No.4 is such a spoiler. 😂
      Not only he won’t lend his jacket, he’ll carve his way into mine too.

  1. My late husband was all 40 what a gentleman, remember you get treated well if you treat him the same we were married for almost 22 years till his death, goid men are certainly hard to find

    1. Wow, you are so blessed. I would give all I have to experience such a love. But truth be told, most men don’t follow all these to the letter. Some of these traits can get revealed based on circumstances you both go through while dating or after marriage. And I think women should rightfully reciprocate the care and respect by doing what is expected as well from a wife material.

  2. It is a very very rare opportunity to experience such a man who beholds all 40. It takes immense love and commitment from him to deliver her this sort of life. My husband saw me through a lot of tough days and my erratic behaviour mostly caused by the wound I have carried from my yester years. He wraps me in his arms to re-ensure that no evil can ever touch me. My heaven. My guardian angel ❤

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