It isn’t really easy being on your own especially when you’re surrounded by so many people who are happy in relationships of their own. You might find yourself feeling completely hopeless about the entire situation. You might be devastated at the idea of you just never being able to settle down with someone. But really, you just need to remind yourself that the person you’re meant to be with is out there waiting for you.
Each and every single one of us has a soulmate. And you must continue to cling to the hope that you will run into your soulmate in the future. You must continue to believe that a life that is filled with lots of love and perpetual happiness is waiting for you. You just have to sit pretty and patient.
You might have fallen in love a few times already but nothing has ever seemed to work out for you. You may have had your heart broken by the people you gave your heart to. You might have become totally invested in particular people only to have them break your heart in the end. The people you trusted and counted on the most were the ones who left you in the dust.
And that’s why it’s so hard for you to put yourself out there again. That’s why you find it so difficult to open your heart up to someone. You’ve grown to distrust so many of the people who walk into your life precisely because of the traumatic experiences of your past.
But you should know that there really is someone out there who is going to treasure every single fiber of your being. There is one person out there who is going to reciprocate all of the love that you have to give them. There is one person out there who is going to adore every single aspect of your heart and soul; someone who will love you with the intensity of a thousand suns. They will love you as if it’s their greatest pleasure in the world.
Somewhere out there is the one person who is going to love you in the way that you deserve to be loved. You are someone who deserves to be loved unconditionally and wholeheartedly. You deserve all the love that another person has to give you. You must always be treated with respect, care, love, and kindness. You deserve to be with someone who will listen to you whenever you feel like you need to open up about something. You deserve to be with someone who is going to be there for you even when you are at your worst.
Somewhere, there is one person who is going to be ever so reliable and dependent. This person is always going to show up for you no matter what. Whenever you are at your weakest and most vulnerable, this person is going to give you strength. Whenever you fall down and you feel like you can’t get back up, this person is going to make sure that you know that you have what it takes to keep on fighting.
It’s not enough that you live a life for yourself that you can be proud of. It’s important that once you achieve all of your goals and dreams, you are able to share it all with that one person you are in love with. And this is that person who will be standing at your side when it’s all said and done. This is the person who is going to be holding your hand and smiling at you for all your successes. This is a person whose personal happiness is totally dependent on making you happy as well.
Sure, you might find it difficult to imagine that such a person exists in this cruel world. But you have got to believe it. You have got to trust that your soulmate is out there looking for you. You just have to make sure that you hang in there. Keep on building yourself. Keep on becoming a better human being. You never know. You might have already passed them by. You might already be friends. You may be introduced to one another abruptly.
And the moment you realize that you’re really with the one, then everything is just going to make sense. Once everything falls into place, then you will understand just why you had to go through everything that you had to go through. Once you meet the true love of your life, then that is when you will realize why it never worked with anyone else.
So, don’t give up. The next time you feel like you’re just absolutely done with love, keep on moving forward. Love isn’t easy. And you aren’t necessarily going to find it right away. But once it does find you, it’s definitely going to be worth it.