Sometimes, the goal isn’t necessarily being able to chase a woman. Sometimes, the goal is to make the woman chase after you. It gets to a point wherein you might be coming off as overly aggressive and overeager. You want to be able to express an interest in her without necessarily driving her away from you and that isn’t always going to be easy. You shouldn’t be so arrogant so as to think that every girl you meet is going to just want to go after you.
But you shouldn’t be so forward and aggressive in your approach to winning her over as well. You will want to balance that out the best way that you can. You have to show her interest, but you also have to give her something to work for. You have to show her that you are a guy who is worth all of that effort.
And you shouldn’t make the mistake of thinking that women don’t chase men. It’s all a matter of being able to present yourself as a man who is actually worth chasing. Now, what does that man look like exactly? Well, a woman is going to want to chase after a man who exudes confidence. You can’t expect her to chase after you if you don’t believe in yourself in the first place. She has to see you as a man of value before she decides to chase after you. However, you shouldn’t take that to mean but she would only like you if you have a high paying job or if you have the looks of a Hollywood superstar. You just have to be able to make the people around you feel comfortable and happy about themselves. And lastly, you have to be a man who looks like you put a lot of effort into taking care of yourself. If you feel like you have the potential to become this kind of man but you lack the necessary knowledge and skills to do so, then you have come to the right article.
First of all, try to manage your expectations. Just because you follow every single thing that is listed on here does it automatically guarantee that every girl is going to want to chase after you. Life just doesn’t work that way. However, by following this article, you are placing yourself in the best possible position to get any girl you could possibly ever want to chase after you. So as not to draw this out any longer, here are the 3 rules to follow to get any girl chase after you.
1. You have to be the priority.
You have to take control of your own life before any girl can be serious about getting with you. That means you have to have your affairs in order. You have to show her let you have clear structure and direction in your life. Otherwise, she is merely going to see you as a very chaotic and out of touch human being. So focus on building yourself first.
2. Manage your time better.
You only have so much time to accommodate all of the important activities and people in your life. First of all, you need to prioritize time for yourself. You have to make sure that you are allotting enough time for yourself to be your own person and to do the things that you need to be doing. She’s going to think that it would be very pathetic of you to ALWAYS be making all of your time available to her. You have to establish boundaries early on about the amount of time but you’re going to be willing to give to the early part of this relationship. Make her feel like she has to earn more of your time. You can’t just be handing this to her on a silver platter. Make her value the time that you choose to give to her.
3. Learn to show interest without being attached.
Just trust us when we say that the fastest way to drive a girl away from you is to become way too attached way too quickly. You have to remember that it’s perfectly possible to fall in love with someone without necessarily attaching yourself to that person. In fact, the attachment is the opposite of love. When you attach yourself to a person, you are creating a sense of interdependency that can be toxic for any type of relationship. However, on the other side of the spectrum, when you are able to show a woman but you are interested in her without attaching yourself to her, that is going to entice her to get to know you better. It is more likely that she will want to be with you if you give her space and freedom to be her own person and to make her own choices. If you attach yourself to her too quickly and too easily, you aren’t really giving her much incentive to chase after you.