A real man wants compatibility and intelligence.В You don’t necessarily have to bend over backwards to change yourself in order to get the guy that you want. It’s not worth it.
It can be difficult to generalize. The male species is an incredibly diverse and complicated one. Each man will have their own personal preferences when it comes to choosing their mate. Some men might not even be interested in getting into relationships at all. It can vary, and that variation tends to confuse women as to how they can win men over. A lot of times, fickle men can really add to the confusion. Ladies, please be patient with us. We know we’re very flawed and complicated people. It can take quite a substantial amount of time and effort to understand us, but we promise that once we do feel like we’re ready to give you our love, you will be loved no matter what. We are also gentle and sensitive beings who are finding our way through this world.
You don’t necessarily have to bend over backwards to change yourself in order to get the guy that you want. It’s not worth it. You should find a love that is natural and organic to you. However, if you want to increase your chances in landing the right guy, there are some universal principles that hold true for every man. Yes, it’s true. Each man will have very specific preferences when it comes to liking women, but there are some general traits in girls that most (if not all) men will certainly find attractive. Here are the top 5 things that men look for in women:
1. Men Want Women Who Are Independent
Independence can mean many things so let’s break it down. Men like women who can stand on their own two feet and aren’t afraid of fighting for what they want. The world is shifting and women are gaining more and more opportunities than ever before. It’s no longer weird for a woman to be the top-earner in a family and that’s cool. Men like women who are able to formulate their own thoughts, and those who don’t have to rely on other people in order to determine what they want to get out of life. Men like women who are motivated and are hardworking. Show a man that you are perfectly capable of standing your ground all by yourself and you’ll win him over.
2. Men Look For Intelligent Women
Intellect is a scarce resource these days and so when a man chances upon a woman who can challenge him intellectually, he’s instantly attracted to her. Smart men in particular like women who can carry conversations about deep and complex topics. It also helps if you’re a well-read woman who can quote a few dead authors every now and then. Knowledge of literature, politics, science, technology, and arts can come in handy when trying to win a man’s heart. For a man, getting a smart girlfriend means he’ll never be bored and that he’ll always be challenged to also be a better version of himself.В – Continue reading on the next page
3. Men Need Women Who Are Honest
Men can be incredibly stupid a lot of the time, and those subtle hints and signals that you drop might go unnoticed. Men like women who are just honest and say whatever is on their mind. Men aren’t as empathetic as women and so boys don’t tend to be very good at reading emotions. That’s why it’s important for men to find girls who are able to articulately express their opinions and their feelings. They want a girl who can be open and free with whatever she thinks. The best relationships are built on trust, and honesty is the only way you don’t betray that established trust.
4. Men Like Women Who Understand the Value of Respect
Men want to feel respected the same way that women do. Don’t belittle your man in front of his friends or make him feel inferior at any point of his life. Treat him with respect and grace, and he’ll come crawling back to you every single time. If he screws up every now and then, be nice about it. Call him out on his wrongdoings, but do so in a respectful manner. Men are also incredibly sensitive beings who don’t like to be disrespected. Irreparably damaging a man’s ego is the best way to drive him away from you permanently.
5. Men Look For Women Who Allow Space for Individual Growth
While some men do like to feel coddled and cared for a lot of the time, a vast majority of men will want some occasional space or privacy every once in a while. Men look for women who understand their occasional needs for isolation and solitude. Men sometimes like to be alone and shut off from the rest of the world. If he happens to find a woman who respects his need for privacy every so often, then she’s definitely a keeper in his eyes.
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