Not cut out for marriage?
Have you ever wondered if the guy that you’re with is actually cut out for being with you for the long haul? Don’t worry. This isn’t a query that has crossed your mind alone. Millions of other girls who have dabbled in relationships throughout the course of time have wondered if their men just have what it takes to go all the way. It’s one of the biggest internal struggles that ladies have with regards to their relationships. And it’s understandable that a lot of women will want some kind of insurance from their men before they fully invest themselves into their relationships. They don’t want to go all-in with someone who has no chance of actually tying the knot with them in the long run.
But how can one be sure?
Well, women have a tendency to rely on what a man says to her before they make their decisions. Women are incredibly susceptible to words; and that can often lead them vulnerable to the smooth-talking men who know just what to say to get their women to trust them.
On the other side of the spectrum, men tend to judge how women act towards them as opposed to what they hear from their mouths. So don’t be surprised when men can say one thing and act in a whole other manner. Typically, men are action-oriented when it comes to expressing how they truly feel. So if you’re a girl in a relationship, you should always make it a point to focus on how your man is acting over what he’s saying. You can tell a lot more about his character based on how he treats you than on what he says to you. You have to be a better judge of character if you really want to figure out if his intentions are pure or not.
And ultimately, it all comes down to that. You have to be able to figure out if the guy that you’re with has noble intentions. You also have to be able to figure out if they have the emotional and psychological capacity to actually sustain a long-term relationship with you. Because if reality depicts otherwise, it would be best for you to just stop wasting your time with one another. Just cut those ties before you let them bog you down in life. You don’t ever want to let a doomed relationship hold you back from where you’re really meant to be in life.
And how do you do that? Well, it all starts with arming yourself with the right information. Once you know what to look for in the people you’re in relationships with, it will become so much easier to judge their potential as long-term partners. But what is it exactly you should be looking for? What are the kinds of men you should be staying away from? Well, read on until the end of this article to find out. These are the 5 types of men who just aren’t cut out for marriage.
1. The emotionally needy man.
This is the man who is going to grow overly dependent on you. He isn’t the type of guy who will be able to stand on his own two feet. He is always going to look to you to pick up after him because he can’t take care of himself. He is someone who will never be cut out for marriage because he can’t contribute anything substantial to the relationship at all.
2. The all talk but no follow-up man.
This is the guy who talks a big game but he never backs it up with his actions. He is the man who will keep you on a string by telling you that he’s in it for the long haul, but he never does anything to back up what he says. He is going to tell you everything that you want to hear, but he is never going to do anything that he ever says he will do.
3. The unresponsive man.
This is the guy who just completely changes the topic every single time you bring up the idea of marriage. He doesn’t want to talk about it because he knows that he is probably never going to grow into the concept of tying the knot with you. It would be best for you to dump him now and move on.
4. The be patient with me man.
This is the guy who is constantly going to stumble. He is going to make the same relationship mistakes over and over again but he will never grow or learn from them. He is emotionally immature and he doesn’t have it in him to actually sustain a long-term relationship with someone.
5. The noncommittal man.
This is the guy who just wants to keep things casual. He would never want you to think that he is fully invested in you. He doesn’t want the responsibility that comes with commitment and so you just have to be forced into playing his games.
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