You’ve just broken up with a person who meant the entire world to you. And now you’re only left with a world that is bleak and without much meaning. But don’t give up.
There’s no denying the fact that relationships are always going to be difficult. There is also no denying the sad truth that breakups are also difficult. In fact, a breakup may be one the most difficult emotional experiences that anyone could ever go through. The reason why breakups are difficult is because the emotional weight of having to bear with love and loss is downright exhausting. It’s as if a huge part of yourself has been ruthlessly ripped from you without warning. The mess that a breakup can bring people can be so overwhelming and the wounds can be very difficult to recover from. Healing from a breakup can be a very long and tedious process, but you have to know that time will eventually be able to heal you. The day will come where someone else will walk into your life and give you the kind of love that you’ve always wanted. This person will help you forget all the pain that you’ve had to go through, and the person you used to love will become but just a part of your colorful history.
However, for the moment, you have to just let yourself be human and let the pain flow through you. Accept the sadness as it comes to you. It can come in waves, and it can be very uncontrollable for the most parts. But what you have to understand for the moment is that it’s perfectly normal for you to be experiencing great grief.
You’ve just broken up with a person who meant the entire world to you. And now you’re only left with a world that is bleak and without much meaning. You are forced to question the worth of existence, and whether love is still something you should aspire to. Everything that you thought you knew very well ended up betraying you, and you don’t know where to go from there. Your old flame plagues your mind every single waking moment of your life, and you don’t know what to do about it. For the most part, you miss your ex, but also, you are impatient and you want to move on.В – Continue reading on the next page
What you have to continually reassure yourself of right now is that your relationship is over and done with. There’s no point in trying to dream up an idealized state of fiction where everything turned out the way that you wanted. You can’t afford to torture yourself with faint fantasies. While you know that you are still weak and vulnerable at the moment, you have to maintain a semblance of strength. You need to develop the resolve to accept the reality of your situation and walk away from it. Don’t let it hold you back from living the rest of your life.
You also have to be given healthy doses of reality. Not every relationship you are going to engage in at this point will be perfect. Just because you’ve gone through heartbreak before doesn’t mean you are going to be immune to it. Heartbreak can strike from anywhere, but at least, the next time it comes rolling around, it won’t be a new experience to you. It’s something that you’re prepared to handle, and it’s something that you’ve already survived in the past. There’s no point in wallowing in your own tears. We are all capable of great things in life if we allow ourselves to just get up and move forward.
There will be dark days ahead of you. Moving on from a relationship that you invested yourself in wholeheartedly is never easy. The worst part of the experience is knowing that it wasn’t necessarily anyone’s faults. Those are the worst kinds of breakups. Sometimes, relationships just don’t last not because of a lack of love or effort, but because the universe just didn’t conspire in the favor of the people involved. It takes so much more than just love, effort, and commitment to make a relationship work. You should know that right now. All the starts have to be aligned perfectly for you to have a fighting chance, and even then, it’s not always going to be a sure thing. But the thing about love is that you always have to be willing to open yourself up to getting hurt. Love should always be worth the risk.
Don’t let the bad experience of a breakup taint your view of love for the rest of your life. You should still be mature enough to know that love is always worth living, fighting, and getting hurt for. There is no experience that compares to being in love with someone who loves you in return. Know that someday, love is going to come your way and will help heal all your wounds.
All you have to do is be patient. Maintain that hope. Don’t you dare give up on finding the love that you think you deserve.
