I truly, genuinely hope that the kind of love you get is the one that makes you feel like you’re home. They say that home is never the place, but it’s the people you’re with. You could have a lavish mansion or a massive penthouse suite, but if you don’t have that one person you love by your side, your luxurious estate will never feel like home. Love should be about comfort and care. It should never feel unfamiliar or forced. Love is always ready to give you a shoulder to cry on or a pillar to lean on whenever you start feeling vulnerable…
I truly, genuinely hope that the kind of love you get is the one that makes you feel like you’re home. They say that home is never the place, but it’s the people you’re with. You could have a lavish mansion or a massive penthouse suite, but if you don’t have that one person you love by your side, your luxurious estate will never feel like home. Love should be about comfort and care. It should never feel unfamiliar or forced. Love is always ready to give you a shoulder to cry on or a pillar to lean on whenever you start feeling vulnerable. That’s what a home offers you. A home offer you sanctuary. It offers you a place where you can be free from judgement.
It provides people a safe spot where they can shield themselves from the cruelties of humanity. If you manage to find those qualities in a person who loves you, then you’re doing pretty good for yourself. When the person you love feels like home for you, then it doesn’t matter what circumstances are thrown your way or wherever in the world the both of you will end up; it will always feel like home.
Home is when you are able to look into each other’s eyes and see the genuine love and care bottled up inside. Home is when you kiss each other and you start tasting the next 50 years of a life together. Home is when you are able to make memories with each other because no memory is worth keeping that doesn’t involve having your significant other around. Home grants you the blanket that you use to warm yourself up whenever the cold tries to stop you. Home is there, ready to give you a nice meal whenever you’re feeling weak and require sustenance. Home will be there to enlarge your family, and give you children and a whole new batch of responsibilities. – Continue reading on the next page
Home will give you the prospect of family and purpose for living.
Love someone who makes you feel like you’re home and you won’t ever want to go on a vacation a single day of your life. You find constant happiness in your home because you control everything that goes on inside it. Yes, other people will try to knock your home down, but you’ve built it with a solid foundation and you’re fairly certain that its pillars will stand the test of time.
When you were a child in school, you always had your urges to want to return home and just sleep all day. You found comfort in your bedroom in the mornings and you never wanted to leave it. While you’re away, you daydream about going back home to a delicious dinner prepared by mom. You count the hours until that school bell rings and you rush off to the bus, excited at the prospect of returning home. It doesn’t change when you get older and get shipped off to college.
You’re practically living in a dormitory for most of the year and you always crave for the warmth and familiarity of home. You can’t wait for holidays or long weekends and you try to go home every chance you can get so you can spend more time with your family. You always look forward to going home because of what it symbolizes to you. A home means so much more than just a structure, it’s a fortress of comfort for you.
That’s the same way you should be feeling about the person that you love. You should always be daydreaming about your romantic partner. Time and distance apart from each other is unbearable for you and you’re always just living for the moments that you can spend with each other. Whenever you’re bored at work, you’re excited at the thought that you get to see the one you love in a few hours. Your partner becomes your daily motivation for finding an avenue for stress-relief. You immerse yourself in the thought of having your partner around you day and night. They’re always there to welcome you when you need them. Ever so reliable; ever so resilient.
I hope you find someone to love who makes you feel like you’re home. I hope you always get to experience the magic of real love for the rest of your life. I hope you never ever have to bear the uncertainties of a wanderer without a destination. I pray that you’re blessed with the opportunity to plant your feet and say This is where we belong; with each other. Go on and find that special person who can make you want to settle down.
Go and find that person who will finally make you feel like you’ve come home.
