Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Don’t shy away from compromise. Keep in mind that you’re not always going to get your way in relationships; and that’s okay. You still have to be willing to give way every once in a while. Yes, you want to do so many things for yourself. But you’re going to have to make a few adjustments if you really want to accommodate someone else in your life.
Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
Stop letting the pressure of projecting yourself as a strong and dominant individual get to you. You are allowed to be weak. You are allowed to be vulnerable. You don’t always have to be putting yourself in a position of strength and power. The only way you’re ever going to find success in love is if you humble yourself enough to let yourself be vulnerable.
Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
Yes, you could be very charismatic and interesting – but no one is ever going to want to stay with you for too long if you don’t show them signs of loyalty or commitment. You need to prove yourself as someone who is actually willing to stay loyal in a relationship.
Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
You don’t always have to be a pushover in a relationship. You don’t ALWAYS have to just be catering to the needs of your partner. It’s okay to be selfish every once in a while. It’s okay to ask for the things that you want and need out of a relationship. There’s nothing wrong with having your needs met by your partner. You shouldn’t have to feel guilty about that.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Stop feeling the need to control every aspect of the relationship. You don’t always have to be the one calling the shots. Let go of the wheel every once in a while and treat your partner like a genuine partner. Trust them enough to let them steer the ship sometimes.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
You have to let go of all of your unrealistic expectations about love and relationships. You are never going to find the perfect partner. You are never going to be in the perfect relationship. You are always going to have to be content with being in a relationship that has its flaws. That’s just the nature of life and relationships in general.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
You have to be able to look beyond a person’s physical appearance if you genuinely want to fall in love for real. Yes, you have always had a penchant for surrounding yourself with beauty. But you also need to acknowledge that aesthetic beauty is only a part of it. You also have to give value to inner beauty. That is just as important, in fact.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)
Pick your spots. Not all fights are worth having. Of course, it’s okay for you to argue and disagree with your partner every once in a while especially when it’s necessary to do so. But there are just some fights that aren’t worth having. These are the fights that will only drive you both further apart. Pick your spots and learn to let go of the unnecessary. Some things aren’t just worth the hassle.
Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
The only way you’re ever going to find success in your relationships is if you really commit to them. You are never going to be able to sustain a romantic relationship with someone if you don’t give it the commitment that it needs to flourish. You have to make sure that you really put all of your effort into your love if you want to even have a shot at making things work.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
You can’t always be deprioritizing your love life and expect things to still turn out fine. You have to understand that we only ever really find success in the things that we devote our time and attention to. And if you want to find success in your relationships, you are going to have to learn to put it first every once in a while. You have to learn how to prioritize your love.
Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
Yes, of course you are allowed to have high standards with regard to the people you date. But you can’t have your standards be so unreasonably high to the point that no one will be able to meet them. Manage your expectations accordingly.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You have to get rid of all of your unrealistic notions and expectations about love and romance. Real-life love is never going to be like it is in the movies. You’re going to have to put that through your head right now. You have to take life as it is. It’s not always going to give you a fairytale narrative. Life has a way of throwing curveballs your way; and you need to be ready to strike.
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