Thank you for warning me.
Aries (March 21 April 19)
You just need to really get out and realize that there is a world out there beyond what you know. As an Aries, you are quite ambitious, and that’s a good thing. But you are also prone to getting tunnel vision. You focus too much on your goals and dreams that you end up neglecting the other aspects of life. Your romantic life ends up suffering because of your unwillingness to readjust your priorities.
Taurus (April 20 May 21)
You have an unwillingness to compromise that just always alienates the people you love. As a Taurus, you like to live a life of familiarity and predictability. You are very much set in your own ways and you don’t like making any significant adjustments to how you live your life. However, you have to be willing to make some compromises to accommodate another person into your life.
Gemini (May 22 June 21)
Settle down. Life doesn’t always have to be a series of exciting thrills and experiences. In fact, a huge bulk of what makes relationships is pretty mundane and you have to learn to appreciate that. You can’t always be looking to stir things up as a Gemini. Be content in living a life of relative routine if you really want to find stability with another human being in a relationship.
Cancer (June 22 July 22)
You are too nonconfrontational for your own good. As a Cancer, you are so afraid of getting hurt that you deliberately avoid standing up for yourself in your relationship so as to avoid any conflict. You can’t let that happen. Love is never going to be true if you always allow yourself to be a doormat.
Leo (July 23 August 22)
Your overconfidence as a Leo is often what leads you to losing the love of your life. Sometimes, you just act a little too entitled for your own good. And that’s not a good thing for the relationship as a whole. You are only ever really thinking about fulfilling your own needs in a relationship; and you fail to recognize the fact that your relationship is made up of two people.
Virgo (August 23 September 22)
You are a planner and an organizer. And that’s one of the best things about you. It’s the reason that your life is always with structure and order. You are always so neat and methodical, and people like the stability that you give them. However, you are also very inflexible. And that inflexibility or unwillingness to adjust can lead to you driving away someone who loves you dearly.
Libra (September 23 October 22)
Learn to let go of that checklist that you have of your perfect mate. Stop subjecting people to constant judgement. As a Libra, you are very high-maintenance when it comes to the company that you keep. You aren’t anti-social, you’re just selectively social. And just because someone doesn’t fit all of the items on your checklist, you immediately throw them to the side. Give people a chance to win you over. No one is perfect after all.
Scorpio (October 23 November 22)
Learn to let go of your emotional baggage once you’re done with it. Let go of those grudges. You mostly drive away the people you love just because there is still so much bitterness in your heart; and this is the bitterness for people who are no longer even in your life.
Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)
Your sheer inability to commit to even the simplest aspects of a relationship is why you will end up losing a shot at finding true love. As a Sagittarius, you have a very free spirit. You don’t like to tie yourself down with promises and commitments. However, in a relationship, you always need to make sure that you stick to your commitments. If you say that you’re going to show up at this place at this time, then you have to show up.
Capricorn (December 22 January 20)
You love money. You love success. You love fame and fortune. As a Capricorn, these are all natural givens. However, because of your ambitious nature, you always fail to prioritize your love and relationships. It’s okay to prioritize your career in life, but you have to strike that balance as well. Your relationship can’t always be taking a backseat if you want things to work out.
Aquarius (January 21 February 18)
Learn to be more in touch with your emotions as an Aquarius. You are always very smart and wise. But people aren’t always going to be looking for intelligence in a partner. Sometimes, they will require empathy and sensitivity and these are things that you terribly lack in your personality as an Aquarius.
Pisces (February 19 March 20)
Fairytales don’t exist and you really need to wrap your head around that. You can’t keep on expecting your love affairs to have fairytale narratives. You can’t discard a romance just because it’s not like you see it in the movies. Be more realistic with your expectations or else you’re never going to be happy in love.
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