The Reason Why You’re So Hard To Fall For Based On Your Zodiac Sign

This explains a lot.

Aries (March 21 April 19)

Your restlessness is what makes you such a challenging person to fall in love with. You are practically the kind of person who is allergic to routine. But routines are somewhat essential in establishing stability and consistency in a relationship. As an Aries, you are a little too energetic and wily that sometimes, it can make other people very uncomfortable.

Taurus (April 20 May 21)

It’s already pretty well-known that as a Taurus, you are as stubborn as they come. It’s practically common knowledge that you aren’t always going to be the easiest person to deal with because of your sheer intensity and hardheadedness. You rarely ever make any compromises and that’s unfortunate because a lot of what makes successful relationships is the willingness to make compromises and sacrifices every once in a while.

Gemini (May 22 June 21)

Be decisive. Stop caring about trying to please all parties involved. You are just too obsessed with making the absolutely perfect decision that would benefit everyone, but that is not a sustainable way to go about decision-making. Remember that there is no possible way for you to out and please everyone in the world. Don’t let your indecision paralyze you into being an idle and stagnant Gemini.


Cancer (June 22 July 22)

You just withdraw into your shell a lot and you always end up paying the price for it. As a Cancer, you have a tendency to be weak and so a lot of people will think that you’re spineless. The truth is that you are nice and you don’t want to offend anyone but that also means you risk opening yourself to getting used and abused.

Leo (July 23 August 22)

Your deep insecurities are what make you such a difficult person to fall in love with. As a Leo, you care far too much about what people are thinking and saying about you. You give too much premium to the thoughts and opinions of other people with how you live your life. Start placing some weight into your own independent thoughts and curb your insecurities.

Virgo (August 23 September 22)

You are just a little too closed off and that’s why people will hesitate when falling in love with you. As a Virgo, you rarely ever like to confront your own feelings and so that means you don’t like to discuss them with other people as well. You mostly rely on humor, sarcasm, and wit to deflect from the things that you are really feeling inside.


Libra (September 23 October 22)

As a Libra, you are just too possessive, clingy, and jealous. Even when you’re not really in a solid relationship with another person yet, you have a tendency to become very territorial. It becomes very suffocating for the person that you’re with and that is what is preventing them from really falling in love with you. Stop placing a stranglehold on your relationships and just let loose.

Scorpio (October 23 November 22)

Your inability to trust other people is what is preventing others from trusting you in return; and by extension, it’s also what is preventing them from falling in love with you. Remember that trust is an absolute necessity in building a strong and long-lasting relationship with another person. You can’t have someone fall in love with you if you don’t trust them.

Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)

Granted you are a Sagittarius, you always jus have this natural aversion to committing to things. You are afraid of dedicating yourself entirely to something because you don’t want to put yourself in a position of such vulnerability. But unfortunately, part of falling in love is just allowing yourself to be vulnerable with another person.


Capricorn (December 22 January 20)

Like a Virgo, you tend to keep everything bottled up inside. But the difference is that as a Capricorn, you aren’t really afraid of confronting your emotions, you just have a problem with sharing them with others. You don’t like to let other people in because you see that as a sign of weakness and you would never want to subject yourself to that kind of condition.

Aquarius (January 21 February 18)

Your pride and your reluctance to participate in traditional romantic norms is what is making you such an unlovable person. As an Aquarius, you don’t really like to buy into the whole concept of courtship and flirtation. But unfortunately, it’s going to be hard for people to fall in love with you until you make yourself a willing participant.

Pisces (February 19 March 20)

Drama. That’s the number one thing that stops people from falling in love with you. Given that you are a Pisces, you are always finding a way to dramatize your life and the situations that you find yourself in. But too bad that not a lot of people are going to be as fond of drama the way that you are.

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