1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
You sabotage your own life as an Aries by refusing to take things down a notch. You are always in a rush. You are always living life on the fast lane. And the problem with that is that the human body isn’t designed to be pushing so hard all of the time. You need to make sure that you give yourself enough time to rest and recover. You need to make sure that you don’t push yourself too hard.
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
You sabotage your own life as a Taurus by being too stubborn to listen to reason. You have to understand that you aren’t always going to be right at everything in life. There is value in listening to the thoughts and opinions of other people. You are never going to be able to grow as an individual unless you learn to be open to opposing perspectives or viewpoints.
3. Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
You sabotage your own life by lying to yourself about who you really are on the inside. As a Gemini, you force yourself to adjust to other peoples’ expectations of you that you fail to form an identity for yourself that you can really fall back on.
4. Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
You sabotage your own life by letting your own fears cripple you into being alone. As a Cancer, you constantly crave for human interaction and affection. You are the kind of person who always likes to be giving love; and you also like to be feeling love as well. However, you are too afraid of getting hurt that you tend to stay in your comfort zone a lot – and by doing so, you don’t really put yourself out there.
5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
You sabotage your own life as a Leo by letting your pride get the best of you. You shouldn’t be so naïve to think that you are perfect and that there is no more room for growth in your life. You are still a very flawed individual and there is much for you to do make the most out of your potential. Know that the world doesn’t revolve around you.
6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
You sabotage your own life by being too much of a perfectionist. As a Virgo, you have incredibly high standards to the point that you tend to alienate so many people around you. You have to be content with the fact that not everyone is going to be as tightly wound as you. You need to loosen up a little bit. Otherwise, you are setting yourself up for constant disappointment.
7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
As a Libra, you are going to sabotage your own life by being too indecisive. Yes, it’s good that you are mindful of the feelings of other people. But that doesn’t mean that you aren’t allowed to put your foot down and demand more from those who are around you; to demand what you want and need.
8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)
You really need to open yourself up more. You need to stop being so afraid of letting people in. You have to understand that you can’t get through life on your own. And the only way for you to forge real relationships with someone is if you open up to them. You are going to sabotage your own life if you keep on staying cut off from those who care about you.
9. Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
You sabotage your own life by refusing to be responsible or accountable for anything. As a Sagittarius, it’s no secret that you are someone who likes to run away a lot. You like to go on a lot of adventures. And it’s also no secret that the reason you like to travel is because you like to run away from your problems and responsibilities. That’s not a good thing. You need to learn to grow up and commit to having direction in your life.
10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
You sabotage your own life by thinking that work is everything. Work is not life. You work as a means to support your life. Your life shouldn’t be consumed by work. And the quickest way to waste a life is to waste all of your time at work. You need to be able to set aside some time for leisure and relaxation. Life isn’t meant to be taken so seriously.
11. Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
You sabotage your own life as an Aquarius by failing to come to terms with how you really feel. You really need to learn how to access and process your emotions better. Otherwise, you might end up imploding on yourself; and that’s not a pretty sight. Having feelings is part of being a genuine human being.
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You sabotage your own life by keeping your head up in the clouds too much. You have to understand that you need to keep yourself grounded in reality. It’s okay to be a dreamer; but you can’t completely blind yourself to everything that is going on around you.