You push away “the one” by being too energetic all of the time. You really need to learn to slow things down every once in a while. You really need to learn to take things down a notch. You come off as restless and volatile most of the time. You have to be able to adjust to the pace of the person you’re in a relationship with. You can’t always be going full-speed ahead. You can also read our very famous articles on how to love an Aries and 12 Things You Need To Know About An Aries.
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
You have a tendency of being very unforgiving whenever people make mistakes in the relationship. And that’s how you push “the one” away. You are just far too impatient. You aren’t as understanding as you need to be to really sustain a romance. And that’s why you end up driving away even the people who care the most about you. You can also read our another piece on 7 things that make Taurus the most romantic partner ever.
3. Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
You push away “the one” for you because of your inability to really figure out what you want out of a relationship. It’s as if you’re always refusing to think about what you’re really looking for in a partner and in love. And because of that, you never seem fulfilled in any relationship that you’re in regardless of who you’re with. Also read our separate article for Geminies: 5 Easy Ways to Love a Gemini.
4. Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
You have a tendency of losing it with your feelings and your emotions; and that’s how you are likely to push “the one” farther and farther away from you. As a Cancer, you are incredibly emotional. You have very strong feelings all of the time. And often, these feelings can lead to emotional outbursts that are just downright scary. Also read 10 things you need to know about a Cancerian woman.
5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
It’s obvious. You push away “the one” by being too controlling in the relationship. As a Leo, you always feel like the world has to adjust to your personal preferences and your expectations. However, the universe doesn’t revolve around you. And you’re not always going to get the outcomes and results that you want – and you can’t be trying to control the people you’re with. Here are some qualities of Leo women and how you should treat them the right way.
6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
You push “the one” away with your overly critical nature and personality. You have a way of always finding the wrongs in relationships. Even when all of the good outweighs the bad, you still manage to sniff out all of the reasons why you shouldn’t b in a relationship with this person. You still choose to focus on all of the bad stuff. Here are 13 things that you should know about loving a Virgo.
7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
You are a social butterfly. As a Libra, you have a tendency of surrounding yourself with so many attractive individuals. You are always interacting with so many people – and as a result, it can really feed into the insecurities of the people you’re in relationships with. You make “the one” feel like they have to compete for your love and attention all of the time. Also read Why are Libras considered as the best long term partners.
8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)
You just have vast difficulty confronting your emotions. You are too afraid to really come to terms with how you feel; and as a result, it makes it difficult for you to open yourself up to someone. And that’s how you primarily end up driving away the people who mean the most to you. That’s how you push “the one” away. If you’re planning on dating a Scorpio then you should know the 15 Brutally Honest things about Scorpios.
You push away “the one” by refusing to take a serious active role in your relationships. You seem to always be passive and inactive. It’s as if you are completely indifferent to the fact that you’re in a relationship in the first place. And it’s mostly because of your very noncommittal nature. Also read, 10 Ways to Love a Sagittarius. Also read, 10 Ways to Love a Sagittarius.
10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
You often push away “the one” with your pessimism and negative outlook on life. Actually, that’s how you tend to push away all of the people in your life. As a Capricorn, you have a tendency of expecting the worst of people; and as a result, you end up alienating even those who are closest to you. You need to try being more optimistic when dealing with other people. Also read, 10 Things to Remember While Loving a Capricorn and if you are in a relationship with a Capricorn read, 10 ways to make a strong relationship with a Capricorn!
11. Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
The main reason why you push away “the one” is because you just refuse to allow yourself to become vulnerable in a relationship. As an Aquarius, you are always so quick to keep yourself guarded. However, you have to allow yourself to be vulnerable with someone if you really want to get intimate with them. Also read, 9 Things to Adopt For a Healthy Relationship with an Aquarius.
10. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You really push away “the one” the sweeping all of your problems and issues under the rug. As a Pisces, you are very emotional; and you have a tendency of letting your feelings get the best of you most of the time. And instead of being logical by tackling your problems head on in a relationship, you ignore them and you just hope they go away. Also read, 10 things you need to know about Loving a Pisces.