She lost interest in your relationship because she got tired of constantly having to figure things out with you. She didn’t want to be in a relationship with a Rubik’s cube that she constantly had to solve. She was so tired of constantly being the one who had to be left in the holes of ambiguity that you left behind. You got tired of having to constantly read into what you were saying or doing because you were too afraid to just say what you really mean. She lost interest in the relationship because she was so tired of constantly having to figure you out like some complicated math exam. She got tired of constantly hoping for you to back your words up with concrete actions. She got tired of constantly being let down by the fact that you overpromised and underdelivered every single time. She lost interest in your relationship because she no longer wanted to take part in something that she could never really be sure of; a relationship that she could never really feel confident in. She lost interest in the relationship because she was tired of always having to hear your excuses. She lost interest in the relationship because your silence was deafening.
She lost interest in your relationship because she has been around the block at least once before. She has a premonition for these things. She knows when a relationship is about to come to its demise. She understands her instincts well and she never fails to listen to them. She lost interest in your relationship because she sensed that you were slowly starting to withdraw yourself from the narrative. She started to see that you no longer considered her to be the apple of your eye. She lost interest in the relationship because she started to lose that special feeling that only you could ever really manage to give her before. She lost interest in your relationship because it no longer gave her the kind of assuredness and security that she desperately needed from it.
She lost interest in the relationship because as painful as it was for her to admit, she had to acknowledge that you just weren’t prepared for being with her. You weren’t ready. You needed some time to yourself to mature and grow before you could really be ready to be with someone like her. She lost interest in the relationship because you couldn’t give her the kind of commitment that she needed you to give. She lost interest in the relationship because you failed to match her level of intimacy and depth. She lost interest in the relationship because she was ready to develop something real with you; but she could see that you weren’t. She lost interest because she was looking for something hot and heavy and you were still all for something casual. She lost interest in your relationship because you had completely different ideas of what love is supposed to look like.
She lost interest in your relationship because she knew that if things kept on going on the same path, it would ultimately conclude in her own pain, disappointment, and heartbreak. She knew that if she continued to let you treat her the way that you did, she would only be setting herself up for extreme hurt. She understood fairly early that even if she tried harder to keep you in her life, you didn’t have the emotional faculties to appreciate that gesture from her. She knew that all of her efforts would go unnoticed and underappreciated. She knew that you would just have branded her as some other girl who was trying too hard and she knew she deserved better than that. She knew that she deserved to be valued more and you weren’t the one who could give her that validation. She lost interest in your relationship because she saw that you stopped seeing her as someone you constantly had to fight to keep. She saw you as someone who took her presence in your life for granted. She saw you as someone who felt entitled even though you shouldn’t have. She lost interest in the relationship because she saw the signs: that you were the kind of man who wouldn’t think twice about leaving her when times get rough. And she never would have allowed herself to fall in love with a man who would only end up leaving.
She lost interest in the relationship because you weren’t so interested in the relationship to begin with. You took a very relaxed, casual, and nonchalant approach since the start and she didn’t want that for herself. She felt that she deserved better. She knew that she couldn’t get the kind of commitment that she needed from you. And so she ended up losing interest. She ended up not giving a damn; because you failed to give a damn in the first place.
