At the offset, a strong woman might come off as very intimidating and off-putting; and for understandable reasons too. You know that they’re the kind of women who have impossibly high standards. They will always be expecting so much from the people they interact with; particularly the men that they date. And so you look at yourself and you don’t want to come off as unworthy of being with her.
You want to save yourself that humiliation and so you won’t even try. And that’s typically the mentality of the weak man. They will just not even try with her because they know that she is a threat to their weak personalities. They are so insecure that they feel like they would never be able to keep up with an independent woman. And that’s why these men are weak.
They don’t see her as the beautiful rose that she is. They won’t see her as the rare gem that they never knew they needed in life. They won’t see her as a gift to the world. And that’s why you should never hesitate to date a strong girl – because it takes a strong man to really appreciate who she is and what she has to offer.
A strong woman is always going, to be frank, and candid about who she is. She isn’t going to be hiding behind any veils or filters. She isn’t going to be coy or plastic at all. She is never going to be afraid of showing off her genuine self. She is a confident woman and she would never willingly hide who she really is for the convenience of others. She knows her worth and she is going to flaunt whatever she’s got.
She is never going to force herself to be someone she’s not comfortable with being just to win the favor of the people around her. She is going to stay true to who she is no matter what. She isn’t the kind of girl who follows a trend for the sake of fitting in. She marches to the beat of her own drum. And so when you do meet her, you know that she’s always being real with you. She is always going, to be honest about who she is and what her intentions are. She doesn’t care that she might potentially scare you away because she would never allow herself to be anyone other than who she really is.
A strong woman is a go-getter. She is always going to grab whatever opportunity is presented to her. She doesn’t take a passive approach to live her life. She is not a mere spectator in this world. She calls the shots. She manipulates the situation to her favor. When she doesn’t like how the table is set, she flips the table. When there is a gun to her head, she pulls out a bigger gun. She is ambitious and she is driven. She wants the best possible things that life could give her, and she isn’t afraid of putting in the necessary effort to attain those things. She is always going to do whatever she can to make sure that she maximizes whatever time she is given in this world.
And while that can be intimidating to a lot of weak-minded men, you shouldn’t see it as a threat at all. Yes, a lot of men will want a girl they can coddle and take care of. A lot of insecure men will want to feel needed by their women. But the truth is that a strong woman is never going to need you. However, she will consciously choose to be with you if you respect her enough to love her the way that she deserves to be loved.
She isn’t going to expect you to do things for her, but she will want you to treat her like a real partner. She isn’t going to look to overshadow you in life, but she isn’t going to shrink herself for the sake of your ego either. She doesn’t want to compete with you; she will want to work together with you to make sure that you live the best possible lives in love together. And that’s only if you are brave and strong enough to put up with her strong personality as well.
A strong woman is someone who genuinely knows what she wants out of life and relationships. And while that might prove to be difficult for you, it’s most definitely going to be worth it. The best things in life never come easy. And just believe it: a strong woman is one of the best gifts that life could ever give you. So if you have a shot at falling in love with a strong woman, take it and run with it. Don’t take it for granted. Because she isn’t going to wait around for you – a strong woman waits for no one.