A lot of us like to daydream about our romantic lives. We all fantasize about one day, meeting our soulmates. We think about how everything is going to seem so right and perfect; how everything is going to fall into place for us. We all dream up these amazing narratives and stories for ourselves because we genuinely want the best love story possible for our own lives. However, despite our best wishes and intentions, things don’t always turn out the way that we want them to. Sometimes, when we do meet the person we think we’re meant to be with; our soulmate; we can meet them at the wrong time.

Sometimes, we’re going to meet our soulmate even though they are already in a committed relationship with someone else. And you’re caught in some kind of a dilemma with that scenario. On the one hand, you don’t want to intervene because you know that that is just bad karma. But on the other hand, you have your opportunity to snag your soulmate right then and there; but you aren’t really sure whether they’d be so willing to leave the relationship that they’re in for you. And the uncertainty of it all can be very painful. You know that your soulmate is right there within your reach. You just can’t seem to be able to grab a hold of them. And even though you might feel like you are undeserving of that kind of pain; if you feel like you deserve to be dealt with better cards by the universe, just take solace in the fact that you are going to grow from this situation.

The one thing that you have to understand up front is that the soulmate isn’t necessarily the person you’re going to get to spend the rest of your days on earth with. Your soulmate isn’t the one person with whom you’re going to share your whole life. A lot of times, your soulmate is only going to take a temporary residence in your life at a time when they need to be there. You might not want them there. You might not understand at the moment just WHY they’re there. But eventually, as you grow older and wiser, you’re going to figure out why everything had to turn out the way that it did. That is why there will be times wherein you will meet your soulmate at a time where they are romantically unavailable to you. But what you might not understand at that moment is that just because the romantic door is closed doesn’t mean that you aren’t going to be able to get anything out of that meeting or relationship. Sometimes, a soulmate enters your life with no other purpose than to teach you a valuable lesson. And even though that might not necessarily meet your wants or expectations, it’s definitely what you need in life. You just have to make sure that you don’t miss out on the opportunity to grow from this situation.

If someone is really your soulmate, then just trust that you are going to serve each other’s purpose in this life. You just have to be accepting of whatever the universe gives you. Sure, you might want an immediate romantic relationship with your soulmate; but they just happen to be unavailable to you now. However, who is to say that they are going to be forever unavailable to you? Who is to say that the two of you won’t somehow find a way back into each other’s lives in the future? Who is to say that the doors are closed on the two of you sharing a romantic life together forever?

Well, even if that IS the case, there is still a lot of meaning and fulfillment to be had from this relationship. And even though it might not be so easy to just leave it all to fate, you’re just going to have to accept that a lot of things in life are going to be beyond your control. You can only manipulate so much in this world. You’re not always going to be able to will things to happen just because you want them to – most especially when it comes to love. One of the biggest mistakes that you could ever make in love is to think that you have the power to force the issue. Maybe the two of you just aren’t ready to be together and that’s why the universe isn’t really giving you an opportunity to be.

At the end of the day, you’re just going to need to have faith. It might go against your instincts. It might go against your personal stubbornness. But you’re just going to have to trust that the universe has your back and that eventually, everything is going to fall into place.

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