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What Does it Mean When a Girl Says She’s Unattractive?

when a girl says she's unattractive

When a girl says she’s unattractive, it means she doesn’t feel comfortable in her skin. In today’s world of superficial standards and unrealistic expectations, it’s very easy to lose ourselves to the negativity and forget our own identities. When a girl says she’s unattractive, it means she’s been through a lot of negative reinforcement in life. It may have been her friends or even her own family, but she doesn’t love herself enough not to let anyone else make her feel otherwise.

What does it mean when a woman says she’s unattractive?

When a woman says she’s unattractive, it could also point to a bad breakup. She has been with someone who did not appreciate her. This person, her ex, made her feel like she can’t amount to anything. Her ex made her feel bad about herself and get uncomfortable with her own body. That’s one of the primary reasons why someone feels unattractive – because someone they loved made them feel that way.

When a girl says she’s unattractive, it can also mean she’s been rejected in the past. It’s a sign that she’s hurting inside. Talk to her about her feelings, about what hurt her in the past. Get to those deep-seated demons of her past and make them go away by bringing them out in the open. Be her support system, be there for her through her tough days.

When she says she’s unattractive, it’s usually because of bullying. Going back to what I said about how society works, there are a lot of toxic people out there who like hurting people’s emotions. She may have been bullied about the way she looked in school or college. Such childhood traumas don’t go away easily and need to be appropriately discussed.

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Have you been called unattractive in your life? So have I! Let’s talk about it in the comments below!

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Relationship Rules is my ideology of love. It's a concept of emotion and oneness. Check out my book - "50 Rules of a Relationship" here.

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