She’s a queen who deserves a king!
There’s no denying that love is one of (if not the most) beautiful things any of us could ever have the privilege of experiencing in our lifetimes. Love has the power to suck out any darkness that may be consuming our lives and fill it with a perpetual ray of light. Love is able to bring laughter and smiles to our days that are susceptible to tears and frowns.
Love is able to bring the most broken of hearts into the best of conditions. That’s why a lot of us can spend entire lifetimes searching for the perfect kind of love. We all yearn for that brand of love that completes our lives and sends us into blissful oblivion.
So how do we know when we’re in that kind of love? Well, if you’re in it, you’ll know it for sure. For those who are less fortunate; those who are still left waiting in the wings, hoping that true love hits them soon, just enjoy the wait. Know that your patience will be worth it once the true love of your life comes along.
And when it does, here are 10 things that will happen for sure:
1. You will learn and grow from one another.
When you really fall in love with someone, then you’re going to inherit a practical life partner. This person is the one who is going to help you wade through the treacherous waters of life. You will learn from one another and you will go through life’s tough obstacles together.
2. You will go through very unique learning and life experiences.
The most valuable experiences you’re ever going to have in life will be spent with this person. If you are lucky enough, you will go through the challenge and privilege of raising a family together. You will experience the weight of having to be responsible for other people’s lives. What matters the most is that every significant challenge or experience you will have to go through in the future will be with your partner.
3. You will know what it really feels like to trust someone.
Trust is such a heavy and loaded word. It’s not something that we can just give to anyone. It takes a lot of time, effort, and experiences to earn someone’s trust. And once you do find the love of your life, you will really understand what it means to place all your trust into someone.
4. You will have a shift of priorities.
All your previous goals, dreams, and plans used to be tailored around your life alone. Now, however, your priorities have changed because of your romantic life. You have found someone with whom you must also cater to your future priorities around, and you really don’t have a problem with it.
5. You will start to think alike.
Because of all the time that you will end up spending together, you will develop a sense of shared thinking habits. You will start to familiarize yourself with your woman’s thought patterns, and you will be able to accurately guess that they are thinking at any given moment.
6. You will learn how to make compromises.
When you develop a real romantic partnership with someone, this is when you start to realize what it means to stop being selfish. Your partnership is not just about your life and your opinion isn’t the only one that matters. You will have to make some compromises when it comes to your relationship, and you will learn why some compromises are okay.
7. You will truly know what it means to share your goals and dreams with someone.
As a kid, you had a plan for your future that you always envisioned for yourself. But now that you’re in a relationship, you have had to make some adjustments. When you fall in love with someone, you will have to learn how to share your goals and dreams with another person. Your life is no longer entirely your own because you’re willingly sharing it with another person.
8. You will be each other’s source of happiness and laughter.
As you grow older, your looks will fade, but that won’t necessarily be an issue. When you’re in love with someone, what matters the most is that you make each other smile and laugh on a daily basis.
9. You will continually break down the ceiling of your love for each other.
Every day, you will think to yourself, I can’t possibly love this woman more than I already do at this exact moment. And yet every single day you will still find a way to transcend whatever love you may have already had for her. There is no limit to how much you will love this girl and you will be building on your love every single day of your lives.
10. You will learn the value of respect.
Because of your immense love for this person, you will also know what it means to truly respect someone. You treat her life and her feelings as your own, and any assault on her dignity is an assault on yours.
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