Sometimes, after chatting with friends or catching up on the news, you might find yourself wondering where all the great guys are. You know, the husbands who help out around the house without being asked, the dads who can cook a delicious family dinner, the men who embrace positive and healthy masculinity.
A single woman on TikTok wondered aloud how others managed to find such devoted partners and great fathers. Another TikTok user, Isabel Brown, confidently replied that the key is to look for nerdy guys if you want a fulfilling and happy life together.
“They’re nerds. You go for the nerd,” Brown said in her video. “It honestly blows my mind that we have this entire trope in American literature and movies and TV shows about the nerdy girl who gets the glow-up when she grows up. She was this unsuspecting girl next door, always nose in a book. Loves fantasy series and movies girl who becomes super hot and amazing. But we don’t say that for men.”
She then offers some straightforward tips on how to spot male nerds.
“If he has purchased a wand from the Wizarding World of Harry Potter: greenest possible flag. If he has an unhealthy relationship with Ahsoka Tano, you better run to the altar. Bonus points if he’s obsessed with Monopoly.”
And why choose nerds? It’s straightforward.
“Because those little underestimated nerd boys grow up to be men who see what’s in here,” said Isabel.
In the comments section, women who are married to nerdy husbands shared their thoughts.
“I was watching this with my fiancé in the room, and he peaked his head up and said, ‘What did they say about Ahsoka Tano???’” wrote one lady.
“My husband: obsessed with presidents, Titanic, and Twister,” a second added.
Some male nerds also joined the conversation and shared their perspectives.
“We’re all IN. YOUR. FRIEND. ZONE,” one wrote.
“I own light saber chopsticks,” another chimed in, seeming to know his audience well.
Meanwhile, a third commented, “YOU FORGOT US LOTR NERD.”
So, there you have it. If you’re in search of a decent guy, consider checking out a comic book convention or heading to the Harry Potter Museum. It might just be the start of a positive change in your love life.
Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!
Source: TikTok – Instagram
