I understand. You might be exhausted and tired from dealing with guys who just aren’t meeting your standards and expectations. You might be tired of just having to cope with the disappointment of someone just standing you up and not following through. You just don’t want to have to keep on putting up with people who don’t really care about you anymore. You are tired of putting up with people who don’t respect you.
You definitely want something more. You know that you’re deserving of something more. You actually want to feel loved in a relationship. You want to feel safety and security in the arms of another person. You know you deserve to be with someone who gets rid of all your fears, apprehensions, uncertainties, and insecurities.
You know that you deserve that guy who texts you right away in the morning. It may seem like a very simple thing but it actually has a lot of heavy connotations. When you have a man text you “good morning” right away when he wakes up every single day, it means that you’re the first thing that comes to mind when he starts the day. And that’s no simple thing.
You always want to be with a guy who isn’t going to be afraid of revealing how he truly feels about you. You want to make sure that he’s someone who wouldn’t hesitate to just open up to you about the contents of his heart and the musings of his soul. He should be someone who you can feel absolutely feel safe and secure about opening your own heart to as well.
You deserve to be with someone who is actually going to prioritize both you and the relationship. This person needs to put you on top of other aspects of his life. He needs to make you feel like you’re not just some fallback for him. He needs to make sure that you don’t feel like just some option he can tap into on his spare time. He needs to make you feel like he’s really serious about being with you.
The man who thinks about you right away after waking up is definitely a guy you would want to be with for the rest of your life. It means that right when he wakes up, he is just itching to hear your voice or to let you know that he’s thinking of you. You need to date someone who actually makes you feel happy whenever you’re together; someone who is overjoyed at the thought of you spending time with one another.
You need to date someone who would praise your character and your personality. He should be someone who sees you as more than just an aesthetic pleasure. He should see you for who you really are. He should appreciate you for your entire being. He should be the kind of guy who never makes you feel judged or insecure about having flaws and blemishes. He should be loving you for exactly who you are and not just what you could be.
You always deserve to be with a man who is going to put you first. He should be a guy who wouldn’t have any problems with placing you above other things in his life. He should always be mindful of your needs, desires, and expectations in life. And he should always be doing his part in trying to meet them. He must always be thoughtful and he always needs to be taking you into consideration whenever he makes plans or decisions in his life.
You deserve to be with a guy who is a great listener. He should always be interested in hearing about what you have to say on something. He should always be open to listening to your point of view. And he should never be dismissive of whatever thoughts or opinions you might want to get off your chest. Whenever he asks you how you’re doing, you know that he isn’t just asking out of courtesy. He really does want to know about what you’re going through and how you’re feeling.
You should date a guy who just practically never stops thinking of you.
It’s almost an obsession that he has for you and your relationship. He should be passionate enough to do whatever it takes to make sure that your relationship is alive and healthy. He should be doing whatever it takes to make you feel secure in your love for one another.
You know that every single word or action that he puts into your relationship is for the betterment for it. You should date a guy who you are comfortable with trusting; a guy who you know you can always rely on even when things get really bad. You deserve a guy who will stay with you regardless of how tough things might get.