9 signs he’s manipulating you without you realizing it

Kaetlyn Summers Posted a year ago
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You may think what you have with someone is all pure and special. But there’s more than what meets the eye. In reality, it might be worse than you actually thought; all the while you’ll think there is no better relationship on the entire planet than yours. And why would that be? Because of this thing called manipulation. No one wants to be in a relationship with a manipulative person, but that doesn’t mean we will never experience it at some point in life.

Now if you’ve fallen in love with him head over heels, it might become real hard to detach yourself from him just to look a little closer and get the hang of what’s happening. So we’ve come up with 10 signs he’s manipulating you and you’ve no clue about it.

1. He chooses his place to talk things over

Whenever you two have something to talk about or want to confront one another after a fight, he’ll ask you to come to his place and talk things over. That’ll give him the advantage of the my-house-my-rules concept. He’ll deliberately put you in a position where you’ll feel uncomfortable, as if you can’t set your own terms.

2. He makes you talk first

This might seem all simple and plain, but the truth lies deeper than what is on the surface. When your guy tells you to go ahead and be the first one to talk, it will clue him in about what you think of the matter, what you blame or don’t blame him for…all of it just so that he can better defend himself and make you the bad guy. He’ll manipulate you to talk first so that he can have the last word. - Continue reading on the next page