10 Signs He is not interested in being a Relationship, Specifically With You
We, as humans, take support of lies when we don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings. We wrap the actual reason up with a bunch of short-term lies to protect ourselves from the embarrassment and the other person from heartbreak. That is not the right way as it hurts the feelings of the person who is lied to later. Discovering lies instead of being confronted with the truth absolutely brings greater pain. If a guy does the same i.e. he seems disinterested in you but does not say it to your face, you can confirm it by some signs.
If he does all these things or most of them, it might mean that he is not interested in you but does not want to admit it.
He Stops Trying:
He is not the guy anymore that he used to be. He is not the same person who tried too hard to get your attention and get you to like him. Bringing roses, chocolates, good morning and good night texts are not there anymore and it is only you who planning dates and hangouts. If it goes like this, he might have lost interest that he once had in you. He might have just found out that you two are not compatible.
Less and Less Time With You:
When you see him spending free time right in front of you and he does not ask you to go out or to do something fun at home then it is a sign too. He prefers spending his free time with his friends and puts little to no effort in making plans with you. There is obviously no point in being in a relationship where the attention and care from both sides is not balanced. – Continue reading on next page
You Get to Know About Him From Other People:
If he is a famous guy or a very good friend according to his peers and colleagues but is totally the opposite with you, in a negative way, then it means he is not interested in showing you his best side. If you get to know stuff about him from other people, things that you feel you should have known first then he is not completely open with you, which is vital.
He is Otherwise Curious:
If he has a nature of learning facts and getting more knowledge about anything and everything but does not ask you enough about yourself then it can be a sign that you did not intrigue him enough. If he is otherwise curious but when it comes to you, he just listens and asks no questions whatsoever. Not only can that be boring, but also it can give you false hopes and keep you in the dark.
He Doesn’t Look at You Like That:
We know that look of love that a guy gives when we are talking or doing something random. We see that his eyes mean something and his sly smile and words unspoken. We all see it when a guy truly is interested. If he is not, there will be no look whatsoever. There will be no electrifying eye contacts or no unspoken sentences because he is not as into the relationship as you are.
He’s Been in Serious Relationships Before:
Maybe he is a guy who is always looking for a long-term relationship and not one who is ready for taking chances and waiting to see if it works out. Maybe he is not just patient enough. His previous long relationships might have raised his expectations regarding every relationship and he just fails to see the fun part, where two people are supposed to get to know each other.В – Continue reading on next page
Always Family Before You:
A perfect couple knows how to balance their family life and their own separately. If you do everything to do so but he does not, and always chooses his family over you, then he is obviously not as intrigued as he should be by you. He is there to stand up for everyone but you. He is one call away for everyone but when it comes to you, he does not pick up.
His Friends Say He is Ready:
If his friends say he is ready for a serious relationship and is up for committing to someone, it is the greatest sign. If his friends say that yet he shows no interest in you, then there is no point in trying anymore. He evidently does not think of you to be right person for him. He does want a relationship, but not with you.
He is not a Player:
If he is not a guy who usually puts one or two months in a relationship then gets out of it, but is seems to do the same with you, then it is another strong sign that he is not interested. Some guys are not straightforward enough to admit they don’t like you, so you have to tell because it is healthy for your own self to get out of such a relationship.
He Knows His Way With Things:
Generally, if he is a successful and smart guy who knows how to make people happy or convince them but is not trying to do so with you then he is not looking for anything with you. You don’t have feel bad about yourself; differences among people should be dealt with maturity, but if he does not want to hurt you, you ought to take things in your hands and confront him.
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