You’re familiar with that cliché of the little girl who keeps pulling on the petals of a flower that she’s just picked up. He loves me. He loves me not. He loves me. He loves me not. Yes, this can be an easy way to help you pass the time. But ultimately, you still genuinely have no idea about how he feels about you. And you’re tired of all the uncertainty. You want to know if he’s really someone who is worth taking a chance on or not. You don’t know if you should let yourself become vulnerable towards him because you’re unsure if his feelings towards you are real.
But what if you’re completely clueless when it comes to reading guys’ feelings? After all, men really do a good job of hiding how they really feel. They aren’t necessarily the most expressive and open people. They don’t typically like to talk about their feelings to much. So they’re virtually an enigma for you. You don’t know how he really feels and it’s really frustrating. You hate the uncertainty. You hate being kept in the dark. You feel like you have the right to know how he feels about you but you’re too scared to just ask him outright. So what do you do? Well, you just need to pay attention to all the little signs.
Just because he isn’t saying much about how he feels doesn’t mean that you won’t be able to tell how he feels about you. You just need to stay vigilant. You just need to really learn how to read him properly. Keep the following things in mind if you’re trying to figure out whether he’s really into you or not:
1. Try to observe his body language when he’s around you.
Is he always facing you whenever you spend time with one another? Does he make sure that nothing is in between the two of you whenever you’re together? Is he very open with his hand and arm gestures? These are all basic body language signs indicating that he’s into you.
2. Look at the behavior of his eyes.
If he keeps looking away whenever he’s talking to you, then he’s probably being dishonest about something. He’s probably trying to hide something from you. But if he really looks deep into your eyes, then he’s telling you that you can trust him; that you can be comfortable with him.
3. Really pay attention to what he’s saying to you.
Just because he isn’t saying “I like you” doesn’t mean that he isn’t saying that he likes you. He can express his admiration for you in other ways. It’s especially telling whenever he compliments you about how you look or a certain personality trait that you might have.
4. Observe his level of touchiness with you.
Typically, a man who lets you be touchy with him and allows himself to be touch with you is a man who likes you. He wants to be affectionate and endearing to you. And he does this through the power of the physical touch.