Compatibility is everything!
Compatibility is an often overlooked but very important aspect of any relationship. You have to understand that relationships end left and right and a lot of these relationships end even though people necessarily fall out of love with one another. It happens all too often. And it begs to ask the question: why do two people who love one another still find a way to break up with each other? Well, it can be hard to find a general answer for all relationships. The reasons and factors can vary from case to case. But ultimately, the most common culprit is incompatibility.
The sad truth is that love alone can’t save a relationship. It’s always going to require a lot of effort, commitment, dedication, loyalty, and time. But even then, relationships can still fail. Relationships are always going to be a lot of hard work. And the best couples really understand that it’s all about trying to make their lives together as easy as possible. And life in a relationship because infinitely easier with compatibility.
So how do you know if you and your partner are truly compatible with one another? Well, here are a few signs that you could be on the lookout for.
1. You are always honest with one another.
Honesty is very important for relationships. And when you are truly compatible with one another, then you wouldn’t have any problems being honest with each other. You respect each other too much to actually lie to one another or deprive each other of the truth.
2. You can both really rely on each other to be there for one another.
Dependability is another great sign that you’re both very comfortable with one another. You can really rely on your partner to be there for you whenever you need them to be even when it’s inconvenient for them to be there.
3. You have healthy communication habits as a couple.
Communication is the bedrock of any couple. So if you two have a really strong communication game, then it’s a great sign that you’re both compatible with one another. Healthy communication means that you’re both comfortable with one another and that you have great chemistry together.
4. You both encourage one another to be your own people outside of the relationship.
You both still value your individual freedom outside of the relationship. You don’t let your relationship define you and in this way, you really work well with one another. You still encourage each other to live your individual lives even though you’re together.
Hi, I am in a relationship now just over a year, His 69, I am 74 we live together, he wants to marry me but still has all his x girls on w/app but not chatting to him, is this sickness, my question is, why don’t he delete all of them, we talk about it but still they all there
If this is a boundary for you then you need to make it clear, and if nothing changes, I’m sure you know what needs to be done. It’s better to be alone than in bad company. Who and what you surround yourself with affects your mental health and overall well-being. Best of luck!
Judy, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and my bf won’t get rid of his daughters mom and his pictures that she posted on her and his Facebook page when they were together . I’m kinda wondering the same thing. Why does he need to keep them? My guy tells me that somewhere tucked deep down he still cares for her and that really breaks my whole heart 😞
I’m in LDR now with my boyfriend..when we start a relationship he is single,last year he arranged marriage of his wife because of his father request for business partner.
I’m so hurt when he told me about his arranged marriage,we both crying because we love each other,but he don’t have choice of his father decision.now even his married already he still contacting me everyday in my inbox,and he always told me that he is not happy in his marriage life,he told me he still want me and he don’t want me to leave,but he is married already. I still love him too,because we promised for each other before he getting married that he will stay with me and his heart is only with me until he die.that’s his promise to me,and I promise him the same.we always sharing our problem,even now,our relationship is still like before when he is single,and he always telling his all friends that I’m his real wife not his wife now..what will I do ?
I want a healthy and no third party relationship.
I want to broke up him,but he don’t want me leave him,because his happy of me than his wife now.
He told me that his wife and him are not good now.