Today’s Reddit post comes from AskReddit, where a Reddit user, whambamshangalan, asked the fellow ladies of Reddit to share what they want to hear their men say in the bedroom.
And, as expected, it got a lot of responses from the women of Reddit. Most of them are hilarious while some are more informative. Here are seventeen of the top answers.
1. A deleted user commented our favorite answer:
“It depends entirely on the relationship. But as a general, we don’t want you to be a silent jackhammering machine. We want noise too- moans or cussing, etc.”
2. Nikkomus shared her experience:
“I’m not typically into talking during $ex (me or my partner) but I once had a dude tell me I was a goddess while I was on top of him. Instant confidence boost, felt 10,000% sexier.”
3. Chameleon777 spoke facts:
“You know those sounds you like to hear from your GF when yer doing a good job? The male version of those noises works for her.”
4. Mochimant wrote:
“You don’t need to say anything, just express that she’s making you feel good. It isn’t weird for guys to moan, in fact for many women it’s a huge turn on. I personally like it when my partner moans ‘f***’ or ‘oh my god’ etc because I enjoy pleasuring him. Any kind of positive feedback is great.”
5. epauls02 said:
“Don’t know why guys think making whatever sounds feel natural is not allowed. Some moaning or grunting can be hot. Or if you’ve got a dynamic going you can verbally play into that.”
6. Sammi2005-2019 wrote their own experience:
“Softly whisper the lyrics to cotton eyed joe”
7. IDontHave20Letters has the most detailed response:
“Words aren’t necessary but if you’re feeling pleased do vocalize it. Silence or just looking at me is odd. I want feedback.”
“Say what feels good, if you want me to do something or stop doing something. Moan, groan, swearing (i know it’s not just me who loves it when they’re so turned on the whisper ‘f***’. Makes me feel very confident). Communication is a turn on. Say our names will make us crazy.”
“Or tell me a joke damnit! Laughter is great just not every single time.”
8. HotWifeZoe said:
“I like my guys to let me know that they’re enjoying themselves just as much as I am. I like it when they moan, let some expletives slip, or say my name, and I even like it when they tell me what they’re about to do to me next. 😈”
9. Paulythorsen wants to hear sweet and simple things:
“I love you”
10. Sgarden91 has realistic needs:
“I cleaned the bathroom and took care of the dishes.”
11. MayUrSh*tsHavAntlers has some solid advice:
“Instruct me like it’s my first time. I want to know exactly what you want.”
12. BeeswithWifi, too, has simple yet important needs:
“Tell me how hot you find me.”
13. Mechanicalgoff talks about the importance of sound:
“I don’t care, just make SOME noise. A silent partner makes me feel like they’re not that into it.”
14. big_white_fishie is a Lord of The Rings fan:
“I want them to hold me close and whisper ‘my preciousssssssss’”
15. screamqueen87 speaks further on growls:
“My boyfriend will sometimes make this very slight almost animalistic growl that I can’t get enough of.”
16. JennaLS elaborates further on the importance of sound:
“Words are good and all but for most guys, let’s start with sounds first”
17. While mandrews122166 prefers vision over sound:
“I like to see his reaction to what he’s feeling more than words.”
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