Sexual attraction isn’t necessarily as complicated as a lot of people make it out to be. As human beings, we are all inherently complex creatures as we are. However, we also have a tendency to overcomplicate things even when they should be very simple and natural. Ladies, when it comes to sexual attraction, you really don’t have to be overcomplicating anything.
You just have to make sure that you tap into your primal instincts. Remember that sexual energy is something natural. It’s something that is built into your system. It shouldn’t have to always be so awkward and difficult. You just have to remember the essentials and go back to basics.
Yes, you can do all of the popular stuff like make him focus on your body. You could try to impress him with your cooking skills. You can try to get him drunk and horny for you. And these are all perfectly fine approaches to sexual attraction. After all, sex is a physical activity and you always want to be able to tap into that physical energy. However, that’s not all that sex is. Sex is also very mental and emotional.
And if you REALLY want to make a man crazy about you, you need to find a way to stay planted in his mind as a sexual figure. You have to be able to make him feel that sexual energy with you on both a mental and emotional level to supplement all of the physical energy. When you are able to plant yourself as a sex figure in the mind of your man, then you have him hooked.
1. Be as interesting as possible.
You aren’t really going to be so interesting to every single person that you meet. However, you are going to be able to improve your conversational skills. And the real secret of being a skilled conversationalist is being a good listener. You have to be able to make your partner feel like you are really paying attention to what they’re saying.
A lot of people make the mistake of thinking that they can be great conversationalists by being boisterous and loud. But the opposite is true. The best conversationalists are those who know how to read and react. You have to practice active listening. And when you master that, you will captivate anyone you converse with.
2. Hook him in by being flirtatious.
You have now managed to capture his interest by making him feel like you are such a great person to talk with. It is now time for you to hook him in by acting a little flirtatious. He pays attention to you now and you know he’s going to respond to his advances.
You need to take things to the next level with him by practicing sexy flirtation. You have to let him know that you are more than just someone who wants to establish casual relations with him. You need to set yourself apart. And how do you do that? Well, you can start with something as simple as sexting. That will let him know where you stand with regards to a relationship with him. He will know that you are being serious about taking things to the next level with him.
3. Give him the illusion of control in your conversations.
So, you have grabbed his interest and you have captivated him somewhat. You have established that you’re looking for something more than just a casual acquaintance with him. You’ve really opened things up with your sexual advances and the ball is now in his court. Allow it to remain that way.
Make him feel like he’s in complete control of the dynamics of your relationship. You may be orchestrating the strings behind his back. But it’s important that you let him take the lead. Let him make the advances the men typically make. Allow him to “work” for you because men always like to chase after the things that they want. Give him that. Let him have his moment in the limelight. And when he does express an interest in you, meet him halfway.
4. Make sure that you have good brand recall.
You’re probably familiar with the concept of brand recall, right? When you think of cookies, you think of Oreos. When you think of cigarettes, you think of Marlboro. You think of cell phones, you think of the iPhone. That’s what you call brand recall. And you need to be able to do that for yourself as well. You need to do that for your own personal brand. And he is your market. Whenever he thinks of sex, you always want him to associate that with you. That’s why you have to be suggestive with him. Let him know that you’re going to be the best thing he will ever get to experience in the bedroom.