Whenever you are trying to traverse the rough waters of love, it’s always going to be tough. You try so hard to find someone who is going to treat you the way that you deserve to be treated. And so you give the men that you date the opportunities to prove their worth to you. You have your own set of personal standards and expectations and you always try to make sure that any guy you date is going to meet those standards that you set.
However, if you find that your man fails to treat you the way that you deserve to be treated, you would have no problems with just dumping him and walking right out the door towards better things. There is nothing that could possibly stop you from walking away from a relationship that you feel is just beneath you. You aren’t the kind of woman who would just fall for a guy’s false promises.
You aren’t a woman who is going o get duped by poorly constructed lies. You always try to keep it real. You don’t want o be leading a man on when you know that you’re just eventually going to dump him. You always try to stay honest and you demand the same from the men you date. If you know that it isn’t really love; if you know that it just isn’t meant to be, then you wouldn’t have any problems with just dumping him.
There are just going to be certain guys who strong women would never want to tolerate. So, if you consider yourself a strong woman, then you should know to never waste your time with these kinds of men. And if you happen to be a man who is interested in being with a strong woman, then you better make sure that you don’t fall under any of the following categories:
1. Men who think you would tolerate their emotional baggage.
You should never be so tolerant of a man who has emotional baggage. Whenever someone gets out of a relationship, then you should make sure that that person is ready to fall in love again before you actually decide to entertain them. It wouldn’t be good for you to take your chances on a guy who is still hung up over somebody else. You want to make sure that you are only dating someone who is actually ready to be with you.
2. Men who are intimidated every time you speak.
As a strong and independent woman, you aren’t going to be afraid of speaking your mind and letting your truth be known. And that’s why it is very important that you find yourself a man who isn’t going to be afraid of letting you speak. You need to be with a guy who isn’t going to be intimidated whenever you decided to voice out your opinions.
3. Men who are intolerant of your bold opinions.
You are going to have some very controversial opinions every once in a while. And you know that you’re going to have a lot of people disagree with you every so often. But that’s okay. You know that that’s a part of the game. However, you know that you are strong enough to tolerate the bold opinions of others as well. And you need a guy who is open-minded enough to handle your opinionated attitude.
4. Men who are jealous of your passion and fire.
You have a very passionate personality. You never take things lightly. You know that life is one big opportunity for you to actually make a mark in this world. And that’s why you’re never going to be one who takes a casual approach to anything. You are always going to give everything that you have to all your endeavors. And you need a man who will be able to handle that.
5. Men who are not proud of your successes.
You are just bound for success and you know it. You have an ambitious personality and you have the drive and motivation to go after your dreams. That is why you need to make sure that you are with a man who not only accepts your successes but actually celebrates them. He shouldn’t be jealous of you whenever you amass your achievements in life.
And of course, you are going to want to make sure that you are with a man who is actually going to commit to you. As a strong and independent woman, you always commit yourself to everything that you set to the heart to – especially your relationships. That is why it is absolutely imperative that you are with someone who is going to commit just as much to you and to your relationship. You should never be tolerant of a guy who isn’t as invested in your relationship as you are.