7 Obvious Signs That A Girl Wants To Sleep With You

Let’s call a spade a spade. Women aren’t necessarily going to be the easiest and simplest people in the world to understand. In fact, they can be really complicated a lot with their mixed signals and their mind games.

You might think that things are going really well between the two of you and that you really understand her on a very intimate level. But then, they just turn around and humble you by making you realize that you know nothing about them after all.

You might think that she’s very much attracted to you and she’s dropping hints about how she might want to go to bed with you. However, before you make any moves, you need to confirm that your suspicions are true or else you’re going to risk making a real fool out of yourself.

If you come on too strong even when she isn’t into it, you’re going to risk offending her and/or you will only be setting yourself up for some major disappointment. You don’t want to be made into a laughing stock for the girl you’re interested in. You are simple and you know what you want.

You have a tendency to take things at face value and you don’t really like to read too much into things. However, it is a huge mistake to think that all women are going to be the same as you. It is very rarely the case that what you think she’s thinking is actually what she’s thinking.

There will be times wherein the pheromones that a woman will emit can trick you into believing that she actually has some strong feelings of attraction towards you.

Or perhaps, out of your own personal desperation, you might be convincing yourself that she’s interested in sleeping with you even when she really isn’t. You have to know that even though women are sexual creatures, they aren’t going to be as interested in sex as much as you are.

That’s why you always want to be 100% sure that she’s into it. If you make one simple mistake; if you happen to misread any of her signals, then you are definitely going to get yourself in some serious trouble. You might end up jeopardizing a very health platonic friendship with someone.

You might end up losing a friend. You have to remember that if you make a move on her and it backfires, she isn’t likely to just forget about it. It’s not something that she’s going to receive so casually. You risk making her feel uncomfortable in your presence for the rest of your lives. That’s why you always want to be sure of the signs.

But what are the signs exactly? How can you tell if she’s actually serious about having intimate relations with you? How do you know that you’re not just deluding yourself? It’s not always going to be easy. A woman can be very good at hiding her intentions whenever she wants to. However, you shouldn’t let that deter you from making a move.

Just read this article and educate yourself on the mind of a woman. If you notice that she is exhibiting a lot of the signs listed here, then it might be obvious that she has some very strong feelings of physical attraction for you.

1. She touches you in intimate places so that you are made to feel like she’s genuinely interested. No woman would be running her hand up and down your thigh if she’s only interested in being your friend.

2. She looks at your lips a lot. You know that a woman is very much physically attracted to you if she’s always looking at your lips. The reason she can’t stop looking at your lips is that she is craving a kiss from you.

3. She licks her lips whenever she knows that you are looking at her. Sometimes, she does this subconsciously. But it’s definitely a very blatant and obvious sign that she’s sexually interested.

4. She brings up sex in your conversations ever so consistently. It’s not totally weird for a woman to be bringing up sex in a conversation. That doesn’t mean that she wants to have sex with you. However, if she does it frequently enough, then you know that something’s up.

5. She wears very provocative clothes whenever she’s with you. She wears revealing clothing as a way to lure you into her body. However, be careful. Sometimes, she might just be a real fan of skimpy clothing.

6. She invites you over to her place. That’s a level of intimacy that you know is not typical of women. If she invites you over to her living space, then you know that she’s interested in getting down with you.

7. She whispers to you a lot. There’s just something so inherently sexy about a whisper. The sensation of a woman’s breath being blown into your ears is definitely a move she is familiar with

9 comments
  1. As a woman I can tell you this is garbage advice and not based on anything legitimate whatsoever! When will people stop blaming our clothes! Just let us wear clothes and don’t read anything into it!! Also I invite friends to my place because it’s where im most comfortable. The touching one is correct but that’s it! Everything else is terrible and sexist patriarchy bovine fecal matter!!

    1. This is horrible advice just cause a girl dresses like a tramp dont mean she wants to have sex or licking her lips dont mean anything either …. im a female and i find that this shit is setting guys up for a bad thing dont read into this info let the girl tell u if she wants to have sex period just ask guys its not that hard ……

    2. Why am I NOT surprised that the angry feminazi disagrees? I’m guessing you wouldn’t know the first thing about attracting males, considering your comment. It’s well-known that if someone keeps stsring at your lips, you either got a wicked herpes sore or they want to kiss you. And as much as you would like to ignore facts, if a woman is trying to get a man’s attention, she’s going to dress provocatively. Not sure what planet you might be from, but on Earth, that’s something females do.

  2. Those were pretty good but if a woman comes into my space or invites me into hers it’s a good bet she is interested. Be chill and allow the chemistry to build. Then you will know for sure or you will know her flirting style.

  3. It’s all pretty clear, except the whispering part. This stuff we build up to, so we feel safe when asking a guy over. Times of changed and things aren’t as easy. Most women make the move with a good guy that we feel comfortable with on a 🌹 date.

    1. So how and what do I look for going to a bar and sitting by myself and just watching ladies I’d like to get with? What do I do after I see signs. Been married 30+yrs just seperated so new to this.

  4. Men please do NOT take this seriously… It WILL get you in trouble!!! The only one that is correct is #1 the touching. Never ever assume. If you are unsure or she is not taking the initiative by literally taking your clothes off or handing you a condom, just ask her! When a man is respectful and considerate, that is so attractive and sexy to a woman and you likely will be rewarded for that! 😉

    1. As a male feminist I do have to agree with the women who have already commented on this post it’s all pretty much BS, however that been said…. I don’t agree with what they are saying either.
      In my humble opinion it’s more to do with a woman’s body language rather than what she’s wearing or talking about… So as long as you are being truly observant when you are listening to a woman you like, you should be able to see for yourself if she’s actually attracted to you or not and just sees you as a friend.

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