7 ways to know whether the man you love is a player or a real keeper
Many women in this world get a heartbreak because they could not find the right man. In a few cases, some men turn out to be players which is why some women are scared to get into a relationship. It’s very important that they know how to find out whether the guy they are in love with is an honest one or not. Of course, women are not psychics. Well, to be really honest, women always know what is happening but it is possible that sometimes this superpower might be at rest and they cannot find out whether the man has honest feelings towards his woman or he’s just having fun.
An honest, loving man would work till the end to fight for the happiness of his woman but at the same time, he will be practical and do things which will be good for both of them in the long term. But trust me, it is difficult sometimes for the smartest women to tell whether their man is on the right track or not.
We have 7 ways for all you women out there through which you can find out whether your man is actually in love with you.
1. He pays attention to all that you say and makes wise decisions when it comes to you.
A loyal man believes that his future and your future both are equally important and your well-being is more important than his own well-being. He will always be cautious when he thinks about you and will make sure that he leaves almost no chance for problems.
2. You will see that he’s always around at the time of need:
No matter how busy he is, the right guy will always be around you in the time of need. Starting from small examples; suppose your car tire gets punctured, you would see that your man would reach there immediately once you call him. This is a small problem, let’s talk about a bigger problem.
Supposedly, you get into big trouble like an accident. Once he gets the news of your situation, he would leave even the most important things to him behind and come rescue you. Which proves how much he cares for you and how much he’s committed to you. A man who is a player will never put too much effort in solving your problems.
3. He would never make you feel that your problems aren’t as important as his problems
Men tend to believe that their problems are quite huge and when they get busy in solving their own problems, they forget that there are people around them who have problems too (this is an indication of a man who is not that committed to you). The loyal man would always believe that your problems are as big as his problems and he would equally want to tackle them.
He would not make you feel like your problems are a joke, in fact, he would listen to you carefully and give you good ideas on how to solve the problem. Irrespective of the fact whether it is your work-related problem or home-related problem, it’s a problem with your boss or a problem with cooking at home, your man would make you believe that the problem needs to be solved and he would be there to solve it for you.
4. He will make you feel like the most beautiful woman in the world, both in and out
Even if you are in your pyjamas or you are getting ready for a big formal party, your man would believe that you are the prettiest woman he knows. It isn’t only about your physical beauty, your man would also admire you for your inner beauty. Tell you how good of a person you are both inside and out.
5. He loves to hear you talk, no matter what topic you talk about
Many people have observed that men do not converse too much. But if your man is super loyal to you and he is not a player, he would always be interested in what you talk about. He would always appreciate that you are expressive and you share a lot with him.
6. Just to surprise you, he’ll go to any humane extent:
He would love to surprise you every time. Therefore, you will see that he would try each and everything in order to surprise you, whether it is on your birthday or some other kind of anniversary. Gifts are another thing but his ideas would fascinate You.
7. He will talk a lot about your future with him.
If he talks about his future with you, then you would know that he’s serious about spending his further life with you. That proves his loyalty because if the man is not serious, he would not want to talk about future and kids and marriage.
I hope you have observed all those qualities in your own man and he loves you as much as your beautiful self deserves. Do let us all know in the comments below about how your man makes you feel special.