It’s no secret that women typically have significantly difficult times trying to read men. Men aren’t always so expressive and open about how they feel. And it can be a struggle for women when all they want to do is know what their men feel about their relationships. Of course, when you’re in a relationship with a guy, you would always want to know where his mind and his heart are at. You would want to know if he’s just as invested in the relationship as you are. You want to make sure that you aren’t taking things too seriously even if he’s just taking a casual approach to things.
You so desperately want for the both of you to be on the same page but he’s making it just so difficult for you. If only there was a way for you to figure out just how committed he is to you without having to wait for him to open up about it. Commitment is important. No relationship could possibly ever survive without it. But it’s also scary. You don’t want to be committing to something that isn’t built to last after all. You don’t want to really be investing yourself into something only to find out that it’s not going to last. That’s going to take a toll on you. It requires a lot of time and emotional energy to commit to a relationship;
and you want to make sure that your efforts aren’t being done in vain. So how can you tell if he’s actually being serious about being with you? You have to know that even though men typically aren’t very good at verbal communication, they can say a lot with their body language and how they act when they’re around you. You can really tell so much about how a man feels about you with the way that he treats you. A man can be incredibly affectionate, caring, distant, cold, confrontational, dramatic, and endearing towards you without having to say anything.
If you really want to gauge how committed he is to you and your relationship, you just need to take a look at his behavior. If you notice that a lot of the signs that you read in this list actually apply to your guy, then congratulations; you have a man who is really committed to being with you.
1. He spends a lot of his time with you.
It’s always a good sign if he’s actually spending lots of his time with you. You should always be happy about the fact that he’s so open to accommodating you into his life in such a manner. People never really make time for things that don’t matter to them; and if he’s making time for you, then that’s always a good sign.
2. He integrates you into his social circles.
He really integrates you into his social circles. He knows that you’re going to be taking a more permanent role in his life; that you aren’t just someone who he can dismiss out of the blue.
3. He makes an effort to reach out to you.
He doesn’t wait for you to start the conversation. He doesn’t wait for you to send the first text. He’s always game to initiate the conversation with you. He always reaches out to you first. He shows a certain enthusiasm about conversing with you; about really connecting with you in an intimate level.
4. He doesn’t have any problems discussing future relationship plans with you.
If he shows a willingness to discuss future relationship plans with you, then that’s great because it shows that he isn’t just living in the now. It proves that he sees your relationship having a future; and he cares about the longevity of your relationship.
5. He doesn’t judge you for how you look or what you wear.
He doesn’t make you feel inferior about who you are just because of how you look. He really loves you with a certain depth. He really loves you for more than just how you look.
6. He really pays attention to the things that you tell him.
He isn’t just concerned with expressing himself. He really hears you out. He makes it a point to really listen to the things that you have to say. And he takes them to heart.
7. He makes an effort to plan dates with you.
He knows that being able to connect with you is key. And he’s always game to go on nice dates with you because he sees these as opportunities to get closer to you.
8. He introduces you to other people as his girlfriend.
You aren’t just some other girl to him. You’re special. You’re his girlfriend. He’s in love with you and he doesn’t take that love for granted. He has no problems with latching himself onto you. He has not problems with attaching his name to yours. He has put a label on what you have – and that shows his commitment to you.