The last article I wrote made me want to show my fellow-men some attention too. While this page isn’t biased, it sometimes seems that way because both me and Z are sensitive guys, we are both in happy relationships, and sometimes it seems like all we care about are the ladies on our page, that’s not true.
Men are different, men are strong, men are often quiet about their feelings because it’s just not in their nature, men tend to expect a certain amount of things from their partners, and they don’t want to ask for those things because they think it’s pretty obvious. Some of these might seem majorly obvious, but necessary.
Here are nine things guys want but won’t ask for.
1. They want respect
This is one of the pillars of every successful relationship. All men desire connection from their partners; I do too. I consider myself very lucky because I never had to ask for it, it’s an unfortunate place to be in if you have to ask for respect from your significant other.
What does it mean to respect a guy? It’s effortless. Men need acknowledgment. Acknowledgment of their success, their positivities, and their endeavors. Let me talk about myself; I’m successful in life because of the support I get from people, because of the acceptance and the feeling of love I understand that no matter what decision I make, I’ll always have people who will be proud of my accomplishments.
My girlfriend is a blessing to me because she respects me for who I am, and she NEVER lets a day go by without reassuring me of my life. She respects me in front of my friends even more. It means the world to me to know that the love of my life truly respects me for everything I am. It’s not that hard, ladies. Make him smile.
2. Pure admiration
Admiration and respect go hand in hand with one another. Your man wants nothing more from you than your appreciation in whatever he does for the two of you. The point here is “TRUE” admiration; you can’t be fake about it. Guys can very quickly sense false respect, and they may or may not tell you to stop faking it.
Just be right about it, admire him for everything he does, for all the hard work he puts in for the two of you, and he’ll be pleased more than ever. Trust me, it works. She admires me for everything I am, and I do the same in return, no fake admiration whatsoever. Complete happiness isn’t that hard to achieve.
3. Your companionship
Companionship is vital, most men expect you to be there, and they don’t think they need to ask you (I’m the same in this case). When I have something important, like a massive business launch or a significant event, I always want her by my side, and it needs to happen naturally, so I never ask her, but she still shows up on her own.
This true companionship is vital. If you have to ask your lady to be with you when it’s essential for you, you’re just taking the purity out of it; she NEEDS to be there on her own. So ladies, give him the companionship he desires from you, and you’ll get the same or more from him in return.
Those few basic rules are so sinificabt to me and resonate deep in my heart and soul. From 1978 to 2012, I was a premarriage counselor. The time spent with couples focused on communication , who am I bringing into this relationship, rules for arguing, sexuality, budgeting time and money, responsible family planning, morality and Mass (God blessing their request to be married in the Catholic Church)! Thanks for making 2023 a great one for me!
And they can keep dreaming about it